What's on: Dying Matters Awareness Week

Monday 6th - Friday 10th May

Dying Matters Mini Pods. From 6th - 9th May a new mini episode of the podcast 'Not If But When' will be published each day in honour of Dying Matters Week. On 10th May the podcast's full-length weekly episode will be dedicated to Dying Matters week and will focus on language around death, dying and funerals. The podcast is co-hosted by Kirstie Atherton, a funeral celebrant and community death educator and Lyndsey Conquest, who is also a funeral celebrant. All episodes will drop at 6am on Spotify and on the Not If But When website.   

HIoW Healthcare Foundation NHS Trust 'Dying Matters Awareness Week 2024'. The specialist palliative care team within Hampshire and Isle of Wight Healthcare Foundation NHS Trust are hosting 'Dying Matters Awareness Week 2024' webinars across the week for all staff. A wide range of topics will be covered including: talking about death and dying, future planning, cultural perspectives, and more. Find out more on the Trust website.

Thinking About Dying, MTD Online. We are a new 'online ' healthcare company. We will be publishing a blog-a-day about things to consider, to raise awareness of the conversation of Dying Matters 6th- 13th May. Link to blog: http://mdtonline.co.uk/blog

Monday 6th - Friday 12th May

12pm: Join 'SEOLCEG' to mark Dying Matters Awareness Week. An online quiz will be shared with Lilette Denton's Facebook followers on Why Language Matters in Palliative Care. A quiz will be posted daily as a challenge for followers and to get them thinking around the topic.

Listening Lantern Facebook feature. Listening Lantern will be running a week long feature on their Facebook page.

Tuesday 7th May

10am: Compassionate Conversations. A free awareness training session delivered by St Elizabeth Hospice. It is aimed at helping people (aged 18+) build the skills and confidence to enable open, honest and sensitive conversations around end of life, loss and bereavement, whilst identifying ways to help and support others. Find out more.

12pm: Your Digital Memories Matter. Have you thought about what will happen to your digital footprint? What do we mean by digital assets? This workshop will provide you with an understanding of what your digital legacy means, what your digital assets are, where to go for help and how to turn this into conversation with family and friends. Find out more.

2pm - 3:30pm: University of Manchester School of Health Sciences Dying Matters Webinar. Join the University of Manchester online for insightful presentations from cross-field expert speakers, demonstrating how we talk about dying with patients and families. Whether you are a student, health care professional, or simply interested in learning more, this event is open to all. Don't miss out on this opportunity to gain valuable knowledge in engagement of meaningful conversations. This could be an opportunity to develop your portfolio/CPD with 'exposure to other fields'. Register now to secure your spot! 

Wednesday 8th May

Advance Care Plan day and 'Getting Your House in Order' conference. On the 8th May the first national Advance Care Planning day will take place in the United Kingdom. This day of action and awareness will highlight the importance of Advance Care Planning and encourage society to document, share and discuss their wishes. Explore how you can get involved on the Advance Care Plan Day website. Registration for the ‘Getting your House in Order, Advance Care Planning Conference’ is now open. This hybrid conference will take place with a live audience in Norwich and will be streamed live. You can also listen to the first two Advance Care Plan Day, ‘Getting Your House in Order’ podcasts now. Charitable organisations working within relevant fields are encouraged to be listed as a ‘supporter’ for this year’s national day of action and awareness. Find out more.

9:30am: The Way We Talk (and Don't talk) about Death, Dying and Grief - Webinar. The Bereavement Counselling Team from Specialist Palliative Care at Walsall Healthcare NHS Trust is hosting a virtual training session to share guidance and advice on how best to have these difficult conversations. Drop by to hear more or to ask questions.

1pm: Why Language Matters in Palliative Care - Webinar. A free session for healthcare professionals to explore what language we use and why it matters when supporting palliative patients. Learn about the public perception of palliative care, what language is used in palliative care and why it is important. This session is for all health and social care professionals who have discussions with or who are supporting palliative patients. Book your place.

5:30pm: Tender Conversations with Dr Kathryn Mannix. As we prepare for the end of someone's life, whether our own or of someone we love, there are many things we might want to discuss yet we can feel unsure how to start. Kathryn will talk about her experience of thirty years as a palliative care doctor and as a Cognitive Behavioural therapist, highlighting the messages most people want to communicate, and ways to manage those most tender of conversations. This webinar will be delivered online via Zoom. Your link and password will be emailed to you upon registration. If you have any questions about this event, please email the team. Register for the webinar.

7:30pm: Conversations about Dying, really do matter. An online discussion and raising awareness event regarding Advance Care Planning, and the reasons this is so important for everyone. Book your free place.

Thursday 9th May

2pm: Never Say Die? So, how do I talk about death and dying? - Webinar. Everyone is welcome to this session, which will look at the language used to talk about death and dying, barriers that exist and ways to have conversations about end of life. This session is free and open to everyone. Book your place.

Friday 10th May

2pm: Getting the conversation started: Dying Matters Week with Before I Go Solutions & MyGoodbyes. Join the MyGoodbyes Party for open discussions on end-of-life planning! Expert-led breakout rooms cover legalities and practicalities. Held online via Zoom. Book your place.

Throughout May

Telephone Probate Clinic, Penn Chambers Solicitors. Free 30-minute telephone support throughout May to anyone who feels overwhelmed by the probate process to provide practical assistance on all issues relating to Wills and Probate. We are also pleased to provide free Will reviews during that time. To book your free consultation, contact Emma Aslett. Find out more

Tuesday 7th May                                      

2:30pm: A cuppa and a chat, Northumberland. Tea, cake and the opportunity for patients to chat about death, dying and grief to health professionals in primary care including GPs, social prescribers, care coordinators and Macmillan nurses. Address: Railway Medical Group, Blyth Health Centre, Thoroton Street, Blyth, Northumberland, NE24 1DX

6pm: Dead Good Film Club presents: Much Ado About Dying, Newcastle upon Tyne. A special screening of the documentary Much Ado About Dying, hosted by Dr Kathryn Mannix. Kathryn will be joined by the film’s director, Simon Chambers, for a very special Q&A. The Coffee Rooms will also be opening up for tea, cake and conversation as part of Dying Matters Awareness Week. Address: Tyneside Cinema, 10 Pilgrim Street, Newcastle upon Tyne, Tyne and Wear, NE1 6QG. Book your ticket.

Wednesday 8th May

10am - 3pm: Talk to us, Gateshead. An event hosted by the Gateshead Specialist Palliative Care Team, along with other local charities and care providers including the North East Ambulance Service. Staff will be available to talk to and ask questions. There will also be an opportunity to fill in a quick survey about the words used around death and dying. Drop by to chat and pick up some free goodies! Address: Gateshead MetroCentre Shopping Centre, Gateshead, NE11 9YG.

10am: Dying Matters, Sunderland. STSFT will be hosting a stall at Sunderland Royal Hospital - Main Entrance Concourse to invite people to discuss 'the way we talk about dying matters'. The team will host a 'bucket list' to generate some discussions and invite people to leave a memory/message on their light up a life tree.
There will be a range of helpful information booklets and posters to be taken away which will help support discussions about the way we talk about dying. Address: STSFT - Sunderland Royal Hospital, Sunderland, Tyne & Wear, SR4 7TP.

Friday 10th May

12pm: Dying Matters - Co-op Funeralcare, Blyth. An open event, where the Funeralcare team will be happy to share their knowledge and answer any questions visitors might have. Address: Co-op Funeralcare, Waterloo Road, Blyth, Northumberland, NE24 1BU.

Friday 10th - Saturday 11th May

9:30am: Portraits with Purpose: Continuing Bonds Exhbition, Newcastle upon Tyne. St Oswald's Hospice is thrilled to announce the launch of our Portraits with Purpose: Continuing Bonds* exhibition in collaboration with Newcastle Artist, Leanne Pearce. This poignant collection of 12 portraits celebrates loved ones, provides a positive, creative focus for grieving and pre-bereaved families, and supports them in their ‘continuing bonds’ process. There will also be a special Meet the Artist event 11am-2pm on Saturday 11th May where you can meet Leanne at the exhibition and ask her more about the project. Come and experience these beautiful artworks first hand and find out more about the families’ stories. They are all unique and show that grief is a 'rollercoaster' and 'always there'. Address: Newcastle Civic Centre, Barras Bridge, Newcastle upon Tyne, Tyne & Wear, NE1 8QH. Find out more.

Saturday 11th May

10:30am: Dying Matters - Northumberland, Felton. Dying Matters Awareness Week highlights the importance of having the difficult conversations around death and dying. Northumberland Woodland Burials and Crematorium invites you to visit its beautiful site and take the opportunity to talk to funeral professionals and start those difficult conversations. Address: Northumberland Woodland Burials and Crematorium, Bockenfield Wood, Felton, Northumberland, NE65 9QJ. 

Monday 13th May       

9:30am: Death Café, Teesside. Come along to the first Norton Library Death café. The café format is to create a safe space to discuss stories and wishes and to allow people to share their fears and thoughts over some tea and cake. Please note: This is not a counselling or bereavement session but a chance to raise awareness and allow people to make the most of their lives. Address: Norton Library, 87 High Street, Norton, Teesside, TS20 1AE.

Tuesday 14th May 

1.30pm: Dying Matters afternoon tea, Wheatfield Court. We are a nursing and residential care home and have partnered with the palliative care specialist nurse within Newcastle to attend the home and do an informal educational session with staff, residents and relatives. This will be interactive, chatting and we will have tea, coffee and cake. The open forum will allow people to ask questions and speak about death and dying in a safe space. Address: Wheatfield Court, Wheatfield Road, Westerhope, NE5 5HQ.

Thursday 16th May

7:30pm: Much Ado About Dying film screening, Newcastle. Released to coincide with Dying Matters Week, this multi-award winning and critically acclaimed feature film will play in cinemas and arts spaces across the UK. The film follows director Simon Chambers after his uncle David calls him with a message of doom: “I think I may be dying.” What the viewer doesn’t yet know is that David is a total drama queen, a former actor and Shakespeare-lover who has grown old on a diet of attention and applause. Simon finds his life drastically interrupted and everything that could go wrong does go wrong as he tries to help his uncle have a good death. Address: Star & Shadow, Newcastle, NE2 1BB. Watch the trailer. Tickets available here. 

Saturday 4th May 

9:30am: Open morning at GP surgery, Leyland. Informal opening morning at Worden Medical Centre, with the opportunity to speak with medical, nursing and social prescribing staff, as well as representatives from local hospice, bereavement support, carer support and other associated community groups. Address: Worden Medical Centre, Leyland, PR25 1HR

Monday 6th May

10am: Dying Matters week, Rochdale. As a Nursing Assistant and an educator at SpringHill Hospice, I have dedicated myself to providing compassionate care and empowering others with knowledge about end of life and how this matters. I have organised some activities and informational information around dying matters. Address: SpringHill Hospice, Rochdale, England, OL16 4PZ. 

Monday 6th - Sunday 12th May

10am: Projecting Grief Exhibition at the Trafford Centre, Manchester. NHS Greater Manchester’s Suicide Prevention Programme have arranged for this exhibition exploring the relationship between loss, creativity and healing to exhibit for Dying Matters Week. Can grief be a catalyst for creativity? From comedy to collaging, Projecting Grief tells the stories of people finding comfort, distraction or hope in a creative pursuit after being bereaved. Address: Upper Regent Crescent opposite River Island, Trafford Centre, Manchester, M17 8AA. Find out more.

Tuesday 7th May

10:30am - 1:30am: Dying Matters - let's talk about it, Liverpool. Information stands will be set up across 3 hospitals in Liverpool - open to staff and the public. Resources will be available relating to Dying Matters, future care planning, local support services, Macmillan, chaplaincy, and organ donation. There will also be a poll asking people for their thoughts on the language used around death and dying. Address: Three different Liverpool University Hospitals. Post codes for each site: L9 7AL, L14 3LB, L7 8XP.

10:30am - 2:30pm: Dying Matters Awareness - Drop in, Blackpool. Dying Matters - let's talk about it. Drop by our information stands at Blackpool Teaching Hospitals - open to all. Professionals from services across Swan Bereavement Team & Trinity Hospice on hand to discuss future care planning and local support services. Address: Blackpool Teaching Hospitals Mezzanine, Blackpool Victoria Hospital, Lancashire, Blackpool FY3 8NR.                           

2:30pm: Dead Good Conversation Café, Preston. Dead Good events aim to help people to feel ready, willing, and confident to talk about death and dying, and to be able to support each other in times of crisis and loss. This is a Conversation Café - a relaxed and supportive space where you can chat about anything and everything to do with death, and find out what you want from future events, whether it's advice on how to make a will, planning for health care, reminiscence sessions, or something else. Talking about death doesn’t bring death closer. It helps us make the most of the time that we have. Address: Longridge Library, Berry Lane, Preston, Lancashire, PR3 3JA. Find out more. 

Wednesday 8th May

9am: Dying Matters Display, Wigan. There will be a display in the staff well being break area at Wrightington, Wigan & Leigh Teaching Hospital to try to capture minds and stimulate discussions with members of staff. There will also be a display showcased at the hospital main entrance. Address: Wigan Lane, Wigan, Lancashire, WN1 2NN. 

9:30am - 11:30am: Compassionate Conversations, Chorley. Free two hour training session to help develop skills and confidence to talk about death, dying and bereavement and identify ways to help and support others. This session is part of Dying Matters Week. Booking essential. Please email the communities team at St Catherine's Hospice or telephone (01772) 629171. Address: Chorley Town Hall, Market Street, Chorley, Lancashire, PR7 1DP. Find out more.

11am: International Coffee & Food Morning, Manchester. An International Coffee and Food Morning to bring service users of Choice Independent Living, their families and new service users together for Dying Matters Awareness week. This is an opportunity for all individuals to meet the team and encourage the support and care surrounding the environment individuals are faced with. To ask questions and interact with professionals, carers and people with varied experiences relating to our loved ones in an comfortable and relaxed environment. Address: Flat 1, 84 Daisybank Road, Manchester, M14 5GJ. 

1.30pm: Dead Good Café, Bolton Central Library. The Dead Good Café is a safe place to chat about death, dying and bereavement & to find out information that might help you when thinking ahead about the end of your life. Ask questions like, "Do I have to have a funeral?" "What are my options?" "Is there a right order to things?" "How do I have a good death?" "What if I want to die at home?" The Dead Good Café encourages everyone to talk more openly about death and dying & provide help and guidance with any questions you might have. Ask anything you like! No need to book, please drop in anytime from 1.30pm! Address: Bolton Central Library, Bolton, BL1 1SE.

1:30pm - 3:30pm: Compassionate Conversations, Leyland. Free two hour training session to help develop skills and confidence to talk about death, dying and bereavement and identify ways to help and support others. This session is part of Dying Matters Week. Booking essential. Please email the communities team at St Catherine's Hospice or telephone (01772) 629171. Address: Leyland Civic Centre, West Paddock, Leyland, Lancashire, PR25 1DH. Find out more.

6pm: Much Ado About Dying film screening, Manchester. Released to coincide with Dying Matters Week, this multi-award winning and critically acclaimed feature film will play in cinemas and arts spaces across the UK. The film follows director Simon Chambers after his uncle David calls him with a message of doom: “I think I may be dying.” What the viewer doesn’t yet know is that David is a total drama queen, a former actor and Shakespeare-lover who has grown old on a diet of attention and applause. Simon finds his life drastically interrupted and everything that could go wrong does go wrong as he tries to help his uncle have a good death. Address: HOME, Manchester, M15 4FN. Watch the trailer. Tickets available here. 

7pm: Lancashire Death Cafe, St Annes on Sea, Lancashire. A free event to talk about grief, death and loss. We all experience grief and loss as we travel through life. Some of our losses are living losses which we grieve, like the loss of a relationship, ending of a job, being made redundant, loss of youth, loss of health. We are more familiar with grief as a result of a death. Address: Mirrie Dancer Bakery & Cafe, 18 Wood Street, St Annes on Sea, Lancashire, FY8 1QS. Find out more

Thursday 9th May

10:30am: Coffee Morning, Stockport. A coffee morning hosted by Mulligans Funeral Service to encourage conversations amongst families about their wishes for their funeral. The aim of this is to avoid the issues that come when families or individuals do not know the wishes of their loved ones. Experienced staff will also be on hand to answer any questions and provide information in a friendly and comfortable setting. Address: 29-31 Gorton Road, Stockport, Cheshire, SK5 6AZ.                  

1pm: Love, Life & Death with St Mary's Hospice, Cumbria. An event with Pluto Productions, who will be performing the play 'Blue Skies' written by Brian Daniels. The play focuses on the importance of hospice care and open dialogue through the eyes of a young man confronted with the prospect of losing his mum. Following the performance St Mary's Hospice staff will be encouraging conversations around this subject in a relaxed and supportive space. Address: Forum Theatre, Barrow in Furness, Cumbria, LA14 1HH. Find out more.

2pm: Creative Writing Workshop with author Freya Bromley, Manchester. Join writer Freya Bromley in a creative writing workshop for grief. In her book The Tidal Year she explores love, loss and the restorative power of nature after her brother’s death. Freya will show us how to use creative writing as a therapeutic tool to support wellbeing, encourage self-expression and untangle confusing thoughts. Together, we’ll try journalling prompts and free-writing exercises as well as exploring how writing about loved ones no longer with us can help us continue our relationship with them. This masterclass will be in person at The Trafford Centre, Manchester. It’s suitable for all levels and will be a supportive and safe environment. There’s no pressure and the only thing you need to participate is a pen and paper! Address: Upper Regent Crescent opposite River Island, Trafford Centre, Manchester, M17 8AA. Book your free place.       

2pm: The way we talk about dying, Manchester. Belong Atherton will be holding a variety of activities and discussions to support Dying Matters Week. Address: Belong Atherton - 55 Mealhouse Lane, Atherton, Manchester, M46 0EU.             

2pm: Tea & Cake Drop In, St-Annes-on-Sea. Pop into Coop Funeralcare St Annes for free tea & cake to talk about your funeral wishes with an experienced Coop Funeral Arranger. Pick up a 'Conversation Starter' flyer to help tackle the 'elephant in the room' with your loved ones and any other literature you feel will be helpful. Address: 32 St Andrews Road South, St Annes-on-sea, Lancashire, FY8 1PS. 

Friday 10th May

10am: Supporting people using substances at the end of life, Manchester. This event is being hosted by Manchester Metropolitan University and the purpose of using this space is to promote resources stemming from a project on end-of-life care for people using substances. The goal of the day is to encourage conversations about death and dying in an open way. Address: Outside Boots on Market Street, Manchester, M1 1PL.

1:30pm: Beyond Words exhibit, Wigan. This exhibit offers a fresh perspective on discussing death and dying, moving away from conventional dialogue to embrace the universal language of art. While "The way we talk about Dying Matters" underscores the importance of language and conversation in healthcare settings and among families, this exhibit will recognise that not all conversations need to be verbal to be meaningful. Through the expressive medium of art, delve into the essence of what truly matters in life and death, bridging gaps and fostering connections between artists, viewers, and the broader community. By showcasing the heartfelt creations of nursing home residents and individuals from the homeless community, visitors are invited to engage with the profound themes of love, connection, purpose, and dignity in ways that transcend words alone. "Beyond Words" serves as a poignant reminder that meaningful dialogue about death and dying can take many forms, each contributing to a richer understanding and compassion. Address: Wigan & Leigh Hospice, Wigan, Greater Manchester, WN2 3HZ.

2pm: Let's talk about death...West Lancs End of Life Doula & Ormskirk Libraries. A free event open to all asking: Why don't we talk about death? Why does it matter? An informative afternoon with a death quiz, poetry and Q&A. Let's share and learn together - doing death differently. Ormskirk Library, Burscough Street, Ormskirk, Lancashire, L39 2EN.

2pm: Cafe of Reminiscence, Coppull Library. A Café of Reminiscence is a way of bringing together friends, family or members of a community to reminisce and share anecdotes of loved ones who have died. It is an opportunity to share stories and memories of the people we have loved who have died, in a welcoming environment over tea and cake. We look forward to welcoming you. Limited places, please book. Address: Coppull Library, Spendmore Lane, Coppull, Lancashire, PR7 5DF

Saturday 11th May

Communication skills as part of Omega Course, Leyland. The Omega course gives 18 hours of training about mortality, living life to the full, advance planning and skills to support bereaved and ill people better. A crucial part of this is confidence in talking about it all. To aid this, the course offers communication skills for social interaction with the opportunity of live practice in role play. People say that, though challenging, this is the best part of the course. Courses available in Leyland, Warwickshire and online. Choose either a modular course that spans 5 weeks or a  weekend course. Address: Leyland Lane, Leyland, PR25 1XB.

Sunday 12th May

2pm: Preserve a memory in paper with Jo-Anne Burgess, Manchester. Bring along a photo that evokes a memory of a lost loved one - it might be a holiday snap, a party in the back garden or a moment captured at home. Your workshop host, artist Jo Burgess, will show you how to meticulously piece bits of salvaged paper together to recreate this special keepsake. See the photo of Jo and her sister Emma as an example. About the artist: Jo Burgess is an illustrator specialising in collage. Originally from Ireland, Jo now meticulously recreates people’s homes, families and pets in salvaged paper from her home studio in Hampshire under the name Green Magpie. Address: Upper Regent Crescent opposite River Island, Trafford Centre, Manchester, M17 8AA. Book your free place.

Tuesday 14th May

09:30am: St Rocco's Hospice Bereavement Café, Warrington. The St. Rocco’s Community Bereavement Cafés are open to all who are grieving and suffering after the loss of a loved one. Although bereavement touches everyone at some time, support and understanding can help during one of life’s more difficult and lonely periods. St. Rocco’s offers that support and understanding through their two cafes. However long you have been grieving, their café will offer you a warm welcome. The St. Rocco’s Counselling and Emotional Care Team with volunteers are there to listen. You can choose to talk one to one with a volunteer or talk to others with a similar bereavement in an informal and safe environment. The cafes are free and open for anyone to ‘Drop-In’, a referral or pre-booking is not needed. St Rocco's team look forward to seeing you for coffee and cake at the next café. Address: Alexandra Park Pavilion, Stockton Heath, Warrington, WA4 2UT. Find out more.

Wednesday 15th May

10am: Life Planning & Funeral Wishes, Ashton on Ribble. Our Co-op Life Planning and Legal Team will be discussing the importance of Wills, Probate and Lasting Power of Attorney. Please feel free to come by and talk to our experienced colleagues about your funeral wishes. It’s an opportunity to ask any questions about what to consider regarding the preparation of any legal matters. Death can be a difficult subject for many families, but we encourage you to address the “elephant in the room” as it could make things easier for your loved ones when the time comes. We have plenty of literature that might be helpful for you and your family that you can take away. Our “Conversation Starter” flyer might be a good starting point for the topic. Address: 550 Blackpool Road, Ashton on Ribble, Preston, PR2 1HY

2:30pm - 4:30pm: Compassionate Conversations, Preston. Free two hour training session to help develop skills and confidence to talk about death, dying and bereavement and identify ways to help and support others. This session is part of Dying Matters Week. Booking essential. Please email the communities team at St Catherine's Hospice or telephone (01772) 629171. Address: County Hall, Fishergate, Preston, Lancashire, PR1 8XJ. Find out more.

Sunday 5th May

10:30am: York Death Cafe, York. Tea, coffee, cake and conversation around dying & death, to help make the most of our finite lives. Everyone welcome 18+, whatever knowledge, interest or belief. A welcoming, friendly and safe space to share your thoughts and ask questions about anything death & dying related. Address: The Black Swan, Peaseholme Green, York, YO1 7PR.

Monday 6th May

Information table at Teesside Hospice, Middlesbrough. An information table will be in the reception of Teesside Hospice talking about death and dying. Emphasising  making memories. Address: Teesside Hospice, 1 Northgate Road, Middlesbrough, TS5 5NW.

Tuesday 7th May

10am: Dove House Hospice Drop In, Cottingham. Dove House Hospice has been caring for people in Hull and the East Riding of Yorkshire for almost 40 years. During Dying Matters Awareness Week, representatives from Dove House Hospice will be holding a drop-in session to provide information and answer any questions about their services. Patients and families are at the heart of everything Dove House Hospice do, whether caring for people at the end of their lives, providing therapies to help people with life limiting illnesses improve their quality of life, or giving much needed bereavement support to grieving families. No need to pre-book, just come along to the library with your questions. Address: Cottingham Library and Customer Service Centre, Market Green, Cottingham, East Riding of Yorkshire, HU16 5QG. Find out more.

10am: Dying Matters - let's talk about it, Museum Gardens, York. Members of St Leonard's Hospice clinical and wellbeing and outreach teams will be available to give advice and resources on a range of topics including advanced care planning, funeral planning and how to deal with grief. A local solicitor will also be available between 12 and 1pm to offer a Will writing advice. Address: Museum Gardens, Museum Street, York, YO1 7FR. Find out more.

11am: Dying Matters Acute Trust BHNFT, Barnsley. Barnsley Hospital NHS will run a stall and work with their partners and community colleagues. Address: Barnsley Hospital NHS, Barnsley, South Yorkshire, S75 2EP.

11am: Dying Matters Awareness, Hull Royal Infirmary. Encouraging us to talk about death and dying It's Dying Matters Awareness Week next week and our teams will be encouraging people to have conversations about death and dying. Our End of Life and Pastoral and Spiritual Care teams will be out and about next week as part of Dying Matters Awareness Week to try and encourage people to talk. The theme for this year’s event, which runs from 6 to 12 May, is ‘The way we talk about Dying Matters’. It will focus on the language we use, and conversations we have, around death and dying – specifically between healthcare professionals and patients, their carers, and their families. The team is linking with Dove House Hospice, Yorkshire Ambulance Service, City Health Care Partnership and local bereavement services, who will be manning stands at Hull Royal Infirmary on Tuesday 7 May, Wednesday 8 May and Thursday 9 May between 11am and 3pm, in the main foyer of HRI. Staff will be available for a chat, advice, and support. Local groups, teams of health care professionals and members of the public are also invited to pop along to the Haven on Wednesday 8 May between 9.15am and 4.15pm, where the National Advance Care Plan Day Conference, which is being held in Norwich, is being live streamed. You can pop in and out during the event. We will be asking how will you ‘get your house in order?’. You might decide to ‘make a pledge’ to document your wishes within an Advance Care Plan. You might simply decide to learn more about this important area and have a conversation about your wises with a loved one. 

11:15am - 1:45pm: Drop in session at Teesside Hospice, Middlesbrough. Drop in session for health professionals and volunteers. Let's talk about death and how we feel about death. Address: Teesside Hospice, 1 Northgate Road, Middlesbrough, TS5 5NW.

12pm: Dying Matters: let’s talk about it, Easingwold, York. Talk to staff from palliative care (CNSs), Stand in the main entrance area with information and a palliative care clinical nurse specialist will be available. Visitors can have a chat, access information, and ask any questions that they have. Palliative care team will be available for guidance, advice, and conversations about end-of-life care. Address: St Monica’s Easingwold, Long Street, Easingwold, York, North Yorkshire, YO61 3JD.

12.15pm: Ask a palliative care nurse anything, University of York. You will be invited to ‘ask a palliative care nurse anything’. This session is an opportunity to meet local palliative care nurse specialists and ask questions you have that relate to their role, such as what is palliative care? What matters to people at the end of life? Who provides support to people who are dying? What happens as someone dies? What drew them to specialise in this area of nursing? Why does it matter that we talk about death, dying and grief?  You can ask questions in-person, or via an app that will be introduced to you at the beginning of the session. Complete this Google form to let us know you are planning to attend. Numbers are limited so please book early. Address: Department of Health Sciences, University of York, York, North Yorkshire, YO10 5DD. Find out more   

1pm: Dying Matters: let’s talk about it, York District Hospital. Talk to staff from palliative care (CNSs), Chaplaincy, and the Bereavement Service. Visitors can have a chat, access information, and ask any questions that they have. Address: Bereavement Suite, York district hospital, Wigginton Road, York, North Yorkshire, YO31 8HE.

1:30pm - 3:30pm: Lelleyfields Crematorium Drop In, Hedon. Lelleyfields Crematorium is a local authority owned and operated crematorium in the Holderness area of East Riding of Yorkshire. Our colleagues who work there are joing us for a drop-in session to answer any questions that you may have about the cremation process, from choosing cremation to deciding on a memorial. No booking required, just come along to the library with your questions. Address: Hedon Centre, St Augustine's Gate, Hedon    East Riding of Yorkshire, HU12 8EX. Find out more.

1:30pm - 3:30pm: Lelleyfields Crematorium Drop In, Hornsea. Lelleyfields Crematorium is a local authority owned and operated crematorium in the Holderness area of East Riding of Yorkshire. Our colleagues who work there are  us joining or a drop-in session to answer any questions that you may have about the cremation process, from choosing cremation to deciding on a memorial. No booking required, just come along to the library with your questions. Address: Hornsea Hub, Broadway, Hornsea, East Riding of Yorkshire, HU18 1RU. Find out more.

2pm: Free wellbeing drop in for Dying Matters Awareness Week. Herriot Hospice Homecare Sowerby Parochial Hall, The Flatts, Sowerby, Thirsk, YO7 1JG. Our free weekly Wellbeing Drop is for people affected by terminal illness and bereavement in Hambleton and Richmondshire to chat with each other and our caring team of experts over a cuppa and a biscuit. It’s a safe open space to ask any questions you may have about death, grief or anything that’s on your mind. Anyone is welcome to come and find connection, as well as learn more about how we can help. We run these sessions every week, however during Dying Matters Awareness Week, we’ll have a special opportunity to take a look at our helpful new “Talking About Dying” resources which we’ll be launching. We hope you’ll join us. Find out more at herriothh.org.uk/talking-about-dying.

Wednesday 8th May

Information session at Teesside Hospice, Middlesbrough. An information session about organ donation. Address: Teesside Hospice, 1 Northgate Road, Middlesbrough, TS5 5NW.

10am: Dying Matters Stand Dewsbury Hospital, Dewsbury. This is an event supported by staff from across the Wakefield End of Life services to give patients and visitors the opportunity to talk about what is important to them at end of life and how they would like to have their voices heard and to have an opportunity to ask any questions they may have about their future wishes. Staff will be offered the chance to know their Compassionate Superpower score and learn how they can support their patients approaching end of life. Everyone is welcome! Address: Halifax Road, Dewsbury, West Yorkshire, WF13 4HS.

10am - 3pm: Pontefract Hospital Dying Matters Foyer Event, Pontefract. Supported by staff, this is an opportunity for anyone to come come along to the hospital main entrance from 10 am to 3pm to find out about how they can have their voice and wishes heard about their end of life preferences or to ask questions about anything that may be a concern. Staff are also welcome to come and share their experiences, ask questions or complete a quiz to find out their compassion super powers! Everyone is welcome. Address: Friarwood Lane, Pontefract, West Yorkshire, WF8 1PL. 

10am: Citizens Advice Bureau Drop In, Bridlington. Hull and East Riding Citizens Advice Bureau (CAB) will be providing a drop-in advice and signposting session about the support they can provide when someone has died or is thinking about their end-of-life arrangements. No need to pre-book, just come along to the library with your questions. Address: Bridlington Central Library, King Street, Bridlington, East Riding of Yorkshire, YO15 2DF. Find out more.

10:30am: Lelleyfields Crematorium Drop In, Hedon. Lelleyfields Crematorium is a local authority owned and operated crematorium in the Holderness area of East Riding of Yorkshire. Our colleagues who work there are joining us for a drop-in session to answer any questions that you may have about the cremation process, from choosing cremation to deciding on a memorial. No booking required, just come along to the library with your questions. Address: Hedon Centre, St Augustine's Gate, Hedon, East Riding of Yorkshire, HU12 8EX. Find out more.                                      

12pm: Bereavement pop up, York. Members of St Leonard's Hospice bereavement team will be on hand to talk about grief and support anyone dealing with bereavement. York Railway Station, Station Road, York, YO24 1AB. Find out more.

1pm: Professional Open Day, Scarborough. An open afternoon for professionals from all sectors who would like to find out more about the work of Saint Catherine's Hospice. The hospice offers specialist training and focused conversations about 'Preparing Well', including LPAs, wills, advance decisions, legacies and more. Address: Saint Catherine's Hospice, Throxenby Lane, Scarborough, North Yorkshire, YO12 5RE.

1pm: Dying Matters: let’s talk about it, York District Hospital. Talk to staff from palliative care (CNSs), Chaplaincy, and the Bereavement Service. Visitors can have a chat, access information, and ask any questions that they have. Address: Hub near Ellerby’s, York district hospital, Wigginton Road, York, North Yorkshire, YO31 8HE.

1pm: Dying Matters Awareness Event, Sheffield. A drop in coffee afternoon run by Coop Funeralcare at their local Community Leisure Centre to start the conversation about dying and death. People can come together have a cuppa and a natter. Address: Penistone Community Leisure Centre, Thurlstone Road, Penistone, Sheffield,  South Yorkshire, S36 9EF. 

2pm: Dying Matters: let’s talk about it, Nelsons Court Inpatient Unit, York. Talk to staff from palliative care (CNSs), Stand in the main entrance area with information and a palliative care clinical nurse specialist will be available. Visitors can have a chat, access information, and ask any questions that they have. Palliative care team will be available for guidance, advice, and conversations about end-of-life care. Address: Nelsons Court Inpatient Unit, 1A Nelsons Lane, York, North Yorkshire, YO24 1HD.

4pm: The Way We Talk About Dying Matters Community Event, Doncaster. This is a Community Event which includes a Death Café. At a Death Café, people gather to drink tea/coffee and have free flowing conversations about death. The aim is to increase awareness of death to help people make the most of their lives. It's a safe and confidential space. The event is a free drop-in session. Everyone of all ages is welcome to attend. Address: The Point (in the Studio), 16 South Parade, Doncaster, South Yorkshire, DN1 2DR. 

4.30pm: Death Café, University of York. We will be holding a ‘Death Café’: a place where people come together to meet with others who think talking about death is interesting and valuable, to drink tea and to eat cake! A Death Cafe is an opportunity for discussion about any aspects of life that relate to death (rather than grief support or counselling) and all Death Cafes are different as discussions vary depending on who attends. This Death Cafe will be co-hosted by the Dept of Health Sciences and Specialist Palliative Care Nurses. Complete this Google form to book your places. Places are very limited for this event so please book early. Address: Department of Health Sciences, University of York, York, North Yorkshire, YO10 5DD. Find out more
 

Thursday 9th May

Information table at Teesside Hospice, Middlesbrough. An information table about finances and Lasting Power of Attorney will be in the reception of Teesside Hospice for patients, visitors and health professionals. Address: Teesside Hospice, 1 Northgate Road, Middlesbrough, TS5 5NW.

Dying Matters Coffee Morning, Sheffield. Coffee morning hosted by local funeral director, C&A Reed, to open the conversation about dying in a positive and constructive way. Address: Oriel House, 173 Duke Street, Sheffield, South Yorkshire, S2 5QN.

9am: Dying Matters: let’s talk about it, Selby, North Yorkshire. Talk to staff from palliative care (CNSs), Stand in the main entrance area with information and a palliative care clinical nurse specialist will be available. Visitors can have a chat, access information, and ask any questions that they have. Palliative care team will be available for guidance, advice, and conversations about end-of-life care. Address: The New Selby War Memorial Hospital, Doncaster Road, Selby, North Yorkshire, YO8 9BX.

10am: Dying Matters Open Day, St Leonard's Hospice, York. Take a tour of the hospice, meet and talk to our expert teams. A local solicitor will be available between 10am and 3pm to offer Will writing advice. Address: St Leonard's Hospice, 185 Tadcaster Road, York, YO24 1GL. Find out more    

10am: The Ridings Shopping Centre Dying Matters Drop in Morning, Wakefield. Supported by  compassionate caring staff, this is an opportunity for anyone to come come along to the Ridings Shopping Centre by the Age UK "Time for Tea" event  from 10 am. Find out about how you can have your voice and wishes heard about your end of life preferences or to ask any  questions or just to have a cup of tea and a chat. Everyone is welcome. Address: The Ridings Shopping Centre, Wakefield, West Yorkshire, WF1 1DS.

10am - 12pm: Castleford Market Dying Matters Drop in Morning, Castleford. Supported by  compassionate caring staff, this is an opportunity for anyone to come come along to Castleford Indoor Market Hub to find out about how they can  make sure that the things that are important to them are heard. Come along to find out more about what services are available for people with a life limiting illness or for anyone experiencing a bereavement or just to have a cup of tea and a chat. Everyone is welcome! Address: 39 Carlton Street, Castleford, West Yorkshire, WF10 1AS. 

10:30am - 3:30pm: Lelleyfields Crematorium Drop In, Withernsea. Lelleyfields Crematorium is a local authority owned and operated crematorium in the Holderness area of East Riding of Yorkshire. Our colleagues who work there are joining us for a drop-in session to answer any questions that you may have about the cremation process, from choosing cremation to deciding on a memorial. No booking required, just come along to the library with your questions between 10:30am to 12:30pm and 1:30pm to 3:30pm. Address: Withernsea Centre, Queen Street, Withernsea, East Riding of Yorkshire, HU19 2HH. Find out more.

10:30am: Registrars Information Session, Beverley. The Registrars team will be delivering a short talk on how a death is registered, followed by time for questions and answers. The administrative process of registering a death is probably not the first thing on your mind when you have suffered a bereavement, or when you are planning your own end of life arrangements. Find out what to expect, what documents are required and how to navigate this process by attending this session. No need to pre-book, just come along to the library. Address: Beverley Library, Champney Road, Beverley, East Riding of Yorkshire, HU17 8HE. Find out more.

12pm: Hull and East Yorkshire Mind Drop In, Cottingham. Losing someone important to us can be emotionally devastating, whether it's a partner, family member or friend. Bereavement affects everyone in different ways, and it's possible to experience any range of emotions. There's no right or wrong way to feel. If you have experienced bereavement in the last year and would like some support, come along and find out more about services available from Hull and East Yorkshire Mind. No need to book, just drop in. Address: Cottingham Centre, Market Green, Cottingham, East Riding of Yorkshire, HU16 5QG. Find out more.

1pm: Bridlington Death Café, East Riding of Yorkshire. At a Death Café people, often strangers, gather to eat cake, drink tea and discuss death. A Death Café is a group-directed discussion of death with no agenda, objectives or themes. It is a discussion group rather than a grief support or counselling session. Talking about and preparing for death can be liberating and offers the opportunity to explore new vocabulary in a safe space, empowering people to make choices about their death. You do not have to know you are close to death, all ages are very welcome. Pre- booking is required, please call Lyn on 07545471474 or get in touch via email. Address: Bridlington North Library, Martongate, Bridlington, East Riding of Yorkshire, YO16 6YD. Find out more.

1pm: Dying Matters: let’s talk about it, York District Hospital. Talk to staff from palliative care (CNSs), Chaplaincy, and the Bereavement Service. Visitors can have a chat, access information, and ask any questions that they have. Address: Bereavement Suite, York district hospital, Wigginton Road, York, North Yorkshire, YO31 8HE.

Friday 10th May

Launch date for Going Gently, Harrogate. A course which covers subjects related to all stages of death and dying, including: planning for death, talking things through with your family, funeral planning, wills, powers of attorney and advance decisions. Address: Harrogate Library, Harrogate, HG1 1EG.

Teesside Hospice open day and slide show, Middlesbrough. Celebration of life slide shows will be shown on televisions around the hospice. There will also be an open day in the hospice. Address: Teesside Hospice, 1 Northgate Road, Middlesbrough, TS5 5NW.

10am - 3pm: Pinderfields Hospital Dying Matters Stand, Wakefield. Supported by staff, this is an opportunity for anyone to come come along to the hospital main entrance from 10 am to 3pm to find out about how they can have their voice and wishes heard about their end of life preferences or to ask questions about anything that may be a concern. Staff are also welcome to come and share their experiences ,ask questions or complete a quiz to find out their compassion super powers! Everyone is welcome. Address: Aberford Road, Wakefield, West Yorkshire, WF14DG. 

10am: Life, Loss & Death Festival: What is Palliative Care? Sheffield. Join for a session all about Palliative Care, delivered by St Luke’s Hospice. The session will cover: The type of bereavement support St Luke’s offers, what palliative care is, and the difference between palliative and end of life care. There will also be a chance to ask questions regarding Palliative Care and St Luke’s services. This event is being delivered as part of the Sheffield Life, Loss and Death Festival. There are over 40 free events taking place across Sheffield during the month-long festival in May. Address: St Luke's Ecclesall Road, South, Sheffield, South Yorkshire, S11 9PX. Find out more.

10am: Dying Matters Awareness Coffee Morning, Rotherham. An informal coffee morning within a peaceful designated space in the Riverside Library, with a guest from the bereavement support team. A drop in session to encourage people to share views, experiences and learn more about how the way we talk about dying really does matter, and how with a person centred approach and appropriate communication, this can empower and enable individual choices, care plans and wishes. Address: Riverside Library, Riverside House, Main Street, Rotherham, South Yorkshire, S60 1AE.

10am: Coffee morning with The Kirkwood, Mirfield. A relaxed and informal coffee morning with a member of staff from local Hospice, The Kirkwood. Find out about the advice and support offered at The Kirkwood. Browse and borrow a wide range of books covering death, dying and bereavement, books suitable for adults, children and families. Address: Mirfield Library, Easthorpe Lodge, Huddersfield Road, WF14 8AN.

Free Wellbeing Drop In for Dying Matters Awareness Week – Saint Michael’s Hospice, Harrogate. This free weekly Wellbeing Drop In is for people affected by terminal illness and bereavement across the Harrogate district to chat with each other and the hospice's caring team of experts over a cuppa and a biscuit. It’s a safe open space to ask any questions you may have about death, grief or anything that’s on your mind. Anyone is welcome to come and find connection, as well as learn more about how Saint Michael's can help. The hospice runs these sessions every week, however during Dying Matters Awareness Week, there is a special opportunity to take a look at the helpful new “Talking About Dying” resources which Saint Michael's will be launching. Address: Saint Michael’s Hospice Crimple House, Harrogate, North Yorkshire, HG2 8NA.

1pm: Dying Matters: let’s talk about it, York District Hospital. Talk to staff from palliative care (CNSs), Chaplaincy, and the Bereavement Service. Visitors can have a chat, access information, and ask any questions that they have. Address: Bereavement Suite, York district hospital, Wigginton Road, York, North Yorkshire, YO31 8HE.

1pm: Dying Matters: let’s talk about it, Nelsons Court Inpatient Unit, York. Talk to staff from palliative care (CNSs), Stand in the main entrance area with information and a palliative care clinical nurse specialist will be available. Visitors can have a chat, access information, and ask any questions that they have. Palliative care team will be available for guidance, advice, and conversations about end-of-life care. Address: Nelsons Court Inpatient Unit, 1A Nelsons Lane, York, North Yorkshire, YO24 1HD.

6pm - 8pm: Castleford Tigers Dying Matters Drop in Morning, Castleford. Supported by compassionate caring staff, this is an opportunity for anyone to come come along to Castleford Tigers Ground to find out about how they can make sure that the things that are important to them are heard. Come along to find out more about what services are available for people with a life limiting illness or for anyone experiencing a bereavement, or just to have a cup of tea and a chat. Everyone is welcome! Address: Wheldon Road, Castleford, West Yorkshire, WF10 2SD. 

Saturday 11th May

10am - 12pm: Junction 32 Shopping Outlet Craft Fair Dying Matters Event, Castleford. Supported by  compassionate caring staff, this is an opportunity for anyone to come come along to the Craft Fair at Junction 32 Shopping Centre, Glasshoughton, Castleford to find out about how they can make sure that the things that are important to them about end of life care are heard. You can find out more about what services are available for people with a life limiting illness or for anyone experiencing a bereavement, or just to have a cup of tea and a chat. Everyone is welcome! Address: Junction 32, Tomahawk Trail, Castleford, West Yorkshire, WF10 4FR.

Tuesday 14th May

11am: Dying Matters: let’s talk about it, Scarborough Hospital. Talk to staff from palliative care (CNSs), Chaplaincy, and the Bereavement Service. Visitors can have a chat, access information, and ask any questions that they have. Address: Scarborough Hospital RVS Café, main entrance, ground floor, Woodlands Drive, Scarborough, North Yorkshire, YO12 6QL.

2pm - 4pm: Free funeral planning and make a will drop in session- Herriot Hospice Homecare, Thirsk. Though not always easy, talking about what you’d like at your funeral early and how you’d like to be remembered can be a special process that brings relief and peace of mind. Similarly, making a will and sharing what you’d like to happen after you’ve died, can ease the process for you and those close to you. During this free Wellbeing Drop-In session, we’ll have our expert team on hand to support you in thinking about your wishes and if you choose, recording them. Anyone is welcome to come to this safe open space, where you can also learn more about our free funeral planning service and Make A Will month happening throughout May. Find out more and get further information on the event. Address: Sowerby Parochial Hall (in the small building behind), The Flatts, Sowerby, Thirsk, North Yorkshire, YO7 1JG.

Thursday 16th May

1pm: Dying Matters: let’s talk about it, Easingwold, York. Talk to staff from palliative care (CNSs), Stand in the main entrance area with information and a palliative care clinical nurse specialist will be available. Visitors can have a chat, access information, and ask any questions that they have. Palliative care team will be available for guidance, advice, and conversations about end-of-life care. Address: St Monica’s Easingwold, Long Street, Easingwold, York, North Yorkshire, YO61 3JD.

2pm: Dying Matters: let’s talk about it, Scarborough Hospital. Talk to staff from palliative care (CNSs), Chaplaincy, and the Bereavement Service. Visitors can have a chat, access information, and ask any questions that they have. Address: Scarborough Hospital RVS Café, main entrance, ground floor, Woodlands Drive, Scarborough, North Yorkshire, YO12 6QL.

Friday 17th May

10:30am - 12pm: Free funeral planning and make a will drop in session- Saint Michael’s Hospice, Harrogate. Though not always easy, talking about what you’d like at your funeral early and how you’d like to be remembered can be a special process that brings relief and peace of mind. Similarly, making a will and sharing what you’d like to happen after you’ve died, can ease the process for you and those close to you. During this free Wellbeing Drop-In session, we’ll have our expert team on hand to support you in thinking about your wishes and if you choose, recording them. Anyone is welcome to come to this safe open space, where you can also learn more about our free funeral planning service and Make A Will month happening throughout May. Address: Saint Michael's Hospice, Harrogate, North Yorkshire, HG2 8NA. Find out more and get further information on the event. 

Tuesday 21st May

2pm - 4pm: Free funeral planning and make a will drop in session- Herriot Hospice Homecare, Thirsk. Though not always easy, talking about what you’d like at your funeral early and how you’d like to be remembered can be a special process that brings relief and peace of mind. Similarly, making a will and sharing what you’d like to happen after you’ve died, can ease the process for you and those close to you. During this free Wellbeing Drop-In session, we’ll have our expert team on hand to support you in thinking about your wishes and if you choose, recording them. Anyone is welcome to come to this safe open space, where you can also learn more about our free funeral planning service and Make A Will month happening throughout May. Find out more and get further information on the event. Address: Sowerby Parochial Hall (in the small building behind), The Flatts, Sowerby, Thirsk, North Yorkshire, YO7 1JG.

Friday 24th May

10:30am- 12pm: Free funeral planning and make a will drop in session- Saint Michael’s Hospice, Harrogate. Though not always easy, talking about what you’d like at your funeral early and how you’d like to be remembered can be a special process that brings relief and peace of mind. Similarly, making a will and sharing what you’d like to happen after you’ve died, can ease the process for you and those close to you. During this free Wellbeing Drop-In session, we’ll have our expert team on hand to support you in thinking about your wishes and if you choose, recording them. Anyone is welcome to come to this safe open space, where you can also learn more about our free funeral planning service and Make A Will month happening throughout May. Address: Saint Michael's Hospice, Harrogate, North Yorkshire, HG2 8NA. Find out more and get further information on the event. 

Tuesday 28th May

2pm - 4pm: Free funeral planning and make a will drop in session- Herriot Hospice Homecare, Thirsk. Though not always easy, talking about what you’d like at your funeral early and how you’d like to be remembered can be a special process that brings relief and peace of mind. Similarly, making a will and sharing what you’d like to happen after you’ve died, can ease the process for you and those close to you. During this free Wellbeing Drop-In session, we’ll have our expert team on hand to support you in thinking about your wishes and if you choose, recording them. Anyone is welcome to come to this safe open space, where you can also learn more about our free funeral planning service and Make A Will month happening throughout May. Find out more and get further information on the event. Address: Sowerby Parochial Hall (in the small building behind), The Flatts, Sowerby, Thirsk, North Yorkshire, YO7 1JG.

Thursday 18th April

2pm - 2:45pm: Free writing workshop, Warwick. Join writer Sally Ballard in her free writing workshop. This will last around 30 - 45 minutes and held at Warwick Hospital’s John Turner Building, Room 2, and online via TEAMS. Address: Warwick Hospital (SWFT), Lakin Road, Warwick, Warwickshire, CV34 5BW. Book a place on the workshop.

Wednesday 1st May                          

10:30am - 11:45am: "Before I Die I Want To": a conversation café about living, dying and how we talk about it, Rugby. This conversation café is a gentle exploration of our thoughts about what makes a good life, and a good death.  A space to think out loud with other curious people, supported by the NHS Chaplain attached to St Andrew's Church. Address: St Andrew's Church, Church Street, Rugby, CV21 3PT. 

Friday 3rd May

10am: Death café coffee morning, Chapel-en-le-frith. Share a coffee with staff from Bythe House Hospice and have informal discussions with them about the language used around death, dying and grief. You can also get involved in some crafts themed around the 'elephant in the room'. Address: Blythe House Hospice, Chapel-en-le-frith, SK23 9TJ

Friday 3rd - Thursday 16th May

12pm: A Matter of Life and Death Festival, Birmingham and the West Midlands. A ground-breaking festival in Birmingham which brings together coffins and cakes, walks and wakes and authors with absent friends. Organised by community interest company BrumYODO, the festival takes place in venues across Birmingham and the West Midlands. This year’s festival hosts some regular events such as a tour of an undertakers, a Birmingham Catacombs walk, theatre pieces, an author event and numerous Death Cafes and In Memory events. And this year, new venues and contributors have joined the festival. There will also be an interfaith walk with talks from different faith groups about different rituals and practices in the aftermath of a death. The festival includes something for everyone and BrumYODO have done all they can to ensure as many as possible are free or low cost. Some need to be booked, some are simply drop-in. Address: Various across Birmingham and the West Midlands. Read full information, including booking details.

Friday 3rd - Sunday 5th May

The Dead Good Death Festival, Coventry. A 3-day festival investigating the often taboo subject of death. From a play about loss and remembering called Tell it to The Bees on the Friday night, to Yoga for Grief and the Dead Good Death Café on the Sunday, there will be events everyone can take part in. Saturday will be filled with stalls, talks and events, all starting at 11am. There will also be opportunities to attend various workshops and talks. All of the talks are free, but Historic Coventry Trust welcome any donations. Come along and find out information in a relaxed space with likeminded people. Address: London Road Cemetery, London Road, Coventry, CV1 2JT. Find out more.

12:30pm: The Myton Hospices at The Dead Good Death Festival, Coventry. The Myton Hospices will be at The Dead Good Death Festival on Saturday 4th May. The Dead Good Death Festival will allow you to explore what a good death means to you through a variety of channels, such as talks, stalls and workshops, and Myton Hospices are excited to be hosting a talk! Come along at 12:30pm for a presentation by the hospice's Community Engagement Manager, Olivia Bowskill (Registered Nurse), discussing the wide range of services and how the hospice may be able to help you or your loved ones now, and in the future. The Myton Hospices team is looking forward to being part of this festival to highlight the importance of having conversations about what a good death means to people. Address: London Road Cemetery, Coventry, Warwickshire, CV1 2JT. Find out more about the festival.

Monday 6th - Sunday 12th May

9:30am - 4:30pm: Dying Matters Awareness Week in Chesterfield Town Centre. A week-long stand in Chesterfield Town Centre manned by Ashgate Hospice. Different activities will be available at the stand each day of the week. Address: Vicar Lane (near Waterstones), Chesterfield, Derbyshire, S40 1PY. Find out what's on each day of the week. Learn more about how Ashgate Hospice is marking Dying Matters week.

Tuesday 7th May

Haiku and Three-Line Poetry Competition, Warwick. Warwick Hospital’s Palliative Care Team had a great response to their Palliative Care Haiku and Three Line Poetry Competition with an amazing 95 entries! The haikus received covered different themes around death, dying and grief, all of them uncovered an honest and open prose about this theme which is a taboo, yet affects us all! There is such a legacy to be had here with each poem being heartfelt, personal and a starting point to open up much needed dialogues about death, dying and grief. The team also received two poems from bereaved children, one who was receiving support from the local hospice. The poems were judged on 7th May at Warwick Hospital by writer, broadcaster and author of the ‘Poetry Pharmacy’ trio of anthologies, William Sieghart. William also visited the hospital's Chapel to talk about the ‘Poetry Pharmacy’ which can now be seen on the walls of the hospital and announce the winners of the competition. William Sieghart also signed books after the event. With the ‘pop up’ bookshop donating a percentage of their proceeds to the SWFT Charity. Address: Warwick Hospital (SWFT), Lakin Road, Warwick, Warwickshire, CV34 5BW.

Dying Matters Week at Worcestershire Acute Hospitals. The End of Life care facilitators and Palliative care team will be holding a display board and table. These will be held at both sites of the hospital trust. They are also asking the wards to design their own End of Life trolleys for the chance to win a prize. Address: Worcestershire Royal Hospital Trust, Worcester, WR5 1DD.

10am: Compton Care - out in the community, Wolverhampton. Specialist palliative and bereavement support provider, Compton Care is encouraging the local community to get talking about death, dying and grief. Throughout the week, colleagues from the charity will be at various locations in the community offering expert advice on starting those conversations and sharing information on planning for the future and their range of specialist services. Address: New Cross Hospital, Outside A&E, Wolverhampton, West Midlands, WV10 0QP. Find out more.

10am - 12pm: The Myton Hospices Talk and Tour, Warwickshire. A tour and talk to give the local community an opportunity to see what Myton Hospices does. Come along on to Rugby Myton Support Hub from 10am-12pm. There will be an opportunity to meet the team, have a tour of the hub and ask any questions you might have. You can find the team on the grounds of St Cross Hospital and there is some free parking available. A short presentation about the services at Myton Hospices will be delivered by their Equity & Inclusion Officer, Kate Blackford, and Communications Assistant, Laura Dadson. If you are interested in attending, please fill out a short RSVP form. Address: Rugby Myton Support Hub, Rugby, Warwickshire, CV22 5PY. RSVP to the event.

10am: Dudley Community Specialist Palliative Care Team: Dying Matters 2024. The team will be raising awareness and answering questions about the way in which we talk about death and dying. The team is comprised of very experienced nurses who care for people in their own homes and care homes as the approach the end of life and empower them to make important decisions about their future care. Address: Cornbow Shopping Centre, Great Cornbow, Halesowen, West Midlands, B63 4AB.

10:30am: Dying Matters Drop-in Event, Dudley. Together with Mary Stevens Hospice Bereavement Team, Friends of Gornal Library are holding a drop in coffee morning where representatives will be available to speak to you.  All will be welcome. Address: Gornal Library, Abbey Road, Gornal Wood, Dudley, West Midlands, DY3 2PG. 

1pm: Poet William Sieghart visits Warwick Hospital, Warwick. The writer, broadcaster, founder of Forward Poetry Prize and creator of the best-selling ‘Poetry Pharmacy’ books, William Sieghart, will be visiting Warwick Hospital. This comes after his role judging the hospital's Haiku and Three-Line Poetry Competition. The winning poems from the competition will be on display for visitors to read. Address: Warwick Hospital (SWFT), Lakin Road, Warwick, Warwickshire, CV34 5BW. 

Tuesday 7th - Friday 10th May

10.05am: Dying Matters, Lincoln County Hospital. A Macmillan Specialist palliative care team will be offering advice, teaching and support to staff, patients and the general public. Takes place from 12-2pm, Tuesday 7th through Friday 10th May. Address: Lincoln County Hospital Canteen, Lincoln, LN2 5QY.

Wednesday 8th May

10am: BCU Dying Matters Event, Birmingham. Birmingham City University will be holding an event to promote Dying Matters Awareness Week. Staff from the College of Nursing & Midwifery, organised by Claire East, Erin McKenzie and Katy Sutherland-Hastings, will come together to discuss and promote Hospice UK’s Dying Matters week, with a focus this year on the language used around death and dying. There will also be external partners involved in the event, including Marie Curie and local NHS partners, who will share their expertise and have discussions with students and staff in attendance.  
The University staff involved all have clinical backgrounds in palliative care and end of life patient care, and the event will be a great opportunity for questions, gaining new information and accessing valuable resources. Address: Seacole Building Westbourne Road, Birmingham, West Midlands, B15 3TN.

10am - 12pm: "Dying in the 21st Century": a public forum to celebrate ‘Dying Matters’ week, Leicester. The newly established ‘Deliberate Dying’ interdisciplinary group formed by researchers at the University of Leicester invites you to learn about their work. You'll also hear from Dr David Wenzel on the language we use to describe dying in modern times, followed by an open discussion. Address: University of Leicester, Leicester, Leicestershire, LE1 7RH. Learn more about the group.

1pm - 3pm: Planning Ahead workshop/drop in event, Sandwell. Dying Matters Awareness Week workshop/drop-in event. This is part of a series of events organised between 6 - 12 May across Sandwell. Discover the rest of the programme. Address: Oldbury Library, Freeth Street, West Midlands, B69 3DE. Find out more.

7pm: Sustainable Funerals, Bewdley. A short talk around natural organic reduction, resumption and natural burial followed by discussion and a question and answer session. Booking essential. Please email Kate or text 07806301328. Address: Friends Meeting House, Lower Park, Bewdley, Worcestershire, DY12 2DP. Tickets available here.

Wednesday 8th May - Friday 10th May

11am - 5pm: Dying matters at Coughton Court, Alcester. Visit Coughton Court during Dying Matters Awareness Week, where visitors can use wooden roundels made from the estate to leave a personalised message for a lost loved one. Displayed along our memorial walkway, visitors can hang their roundel leading into the Little Orchard where they then can take a moment to remember them. On the 15th of May, everyone that has personalised a roundel will be able to come and collect it from the memorial walkway as a keepsake to remember their lost loved one at home. Normal admission applies, see the Coughton Court webpage for more details. Address: Coughton Court - National Trust, Alcester, Warwickshire, B49 5JA.

11am: Dying Matters Week event, Nuneaton. Mary Ann Evans Hospice is hosting an event in collaboration with Dying Matters Week. The event aims to discuss the language used when talking about death, to reduce the stigma that there is around the topic of death and dying. The theme this year for Dying Matters Week is language, so the hospice has chosen to focus on the languages used when talking about death, such as best practice on the terminology around dying. The team strongly believes that this type of terminology should be taught from a young age, as well as how to talk to, and support, a person who might be grieving, such as a pupil or colleague. Address: Mary Ann Evans Hospice, Nuneaton, Warwickshire, CV10 7QL.

Thursday 9th May

Grief walk, Buxton. Take a walk around a beautiful park in Buxton. You are welcome to stop for a coffee and a chat afterwards. Address: Blythe House Hospice, Chapel-en-le-frith, SK23 9TJ

9am: Words of Farewell'- The language of a good death, loss and bereavement, West Bromwich. Sandwell General Hospital are planning to hold a staff engagement event for all healthcare professionals to attend as part of this years Dying Matters Week. It will primarily focus on the 'words of farewell' and how the language we use when discussing death and dying has an impact not only on patients, but also their relatives/carers. The team wants to explore how are they currently doing this and how can to improve not only communication skills but also discussing staff perceptions of what a 'good death' looks like. There will also be representation there from local community support organisations/groups, the hospital's chaplaincy and well being teams. Get in touch with the team at 0121 507 3216. Address: Conference Room, Education Centre, Sandwell General Hospital, West Bromwich, West Midlands, B71 4HJ. 

10am: Compton Care - out in the community, Wolverhampton. Specialist palliative and bereavement support provider, Compton Care is encouraging the local community to get talking about death, dying and grief. Throughout the week, colleagues from the charity will be at various locations in the community offering expert advice on starting those conversations and sharing information on planning for the future and their range of specialist services. Address: New Cross Hospital, Outside A&E, Wolverhampton, West Midlands, WV10 0QP. Find out more.

10:30am: Compton Care - out in the community, Wolverhampton. Specialist palliative and bereavement support provider, Compton Care is encouraging the local community to get talking about death, dying and grief. Throughout the week, colleagues from the charity will be at various locations in the community offering expert advice on starting those conversations and sharing information on planning for the future and their range of specialist services. Address: Codsall Community Hub, Wolverhampton, West Midlands, WV8 1PE. Find out more.

10am: Dying Matters drop in at Birmingham Hospice Erdington. Join Birmingham Hospice in their Erdington Living Well Centre to find out more about the different types of support that they offer at the hospice. Visitors will also be welcome to visit the Hive café with a range of snacks and drinks available. There is no need to book in advance, and anyone wanting to visit can just turn up on the day. The team look forward to welcoming you then! Address: Birmingham Hospice, 76 Grange Road, Birmingham, West Midlands, B24 0DF.

11:30am - 1:30pm: "Before I Die I Want To": a conversation café, Coventry. A 2-hour conversation café where attendees can explore desires and thoughts about what they want for their death, and their life, and how we talk about these things. The session is facilitated by the staff of the local University Hospital Trust's Department of Spiritual Care. Book your place or simply drop in. You can book on via Eventbrite link, but drop ins are also welcome. Address: Faith Centre, University Hospital, Clifford Bridge Road, Coventry, CV2 2DX. Book your place.

11:30am: Beaumond House Coffee Morning, Newark. You are invited to join a Coffee Morning run by Beaumond House Hospice Care at their Beaumond Cross shop. Come along for complimentary refreshments and the opportunity to chat with the Beaumond House team. Address: Beaumond House Charity Shop, Newark, Notts, NG24 1XH. Find out more.

1:30 - 3pm: Dying Matters Coffee Afternoon, Bourne. A coffee afternoon with refreshments at Central Coop Funeral Home. Everybody welcome. Address: R J Scholes Funeral Service, Wherry's Lane, Bourne PE10 9HQ

Friday 10th May

Dying Matters Week, Leicester. University Hospitals in Leicester will be marking Dying Matters Awareness week, focusing on the theme ‘The way we talk about Dying Matters’. This includes the language that we use, and conversations we have, around death and dying – specifically between healthcare professionals and patients, their carers and their families. Address: Leicester Royal Infirmary, Leicester, Leicestershire, LE1 5WW. 

9am: Free Community End of Life Care Conference, Derby. This study day is free of charge and is aimed at anyone working in health and social care within Derbyshire, to all RN's, AHP's and HCA's. Applicable to you if working within community nursing teams; within a care home setting; or within domiciliary home care. The day will facilitate increased confidence within: Symptom management, What matters to the patient/resident, inclusivity in end of life care, ethics and moral dilemmas, staff wellbeing and resilience, and knowing where to access support available in management of end-of-life care. Booking is essential. Address: Johnson Building, Locomotive Way, Derby, DE24. Email the team to find out more.

10:30am: Compton Care - out in the community, Wolverhampton. Specialist palliative and bereavement support provider, Compton Care is encouraging the local community to get talking about death, dying and grief. Throughout the week, colleagues from the charity will be at various locations in the community offering expert advice on starting those conversations and sharing information on planning for the future and their range of specialist services. Address: ASDA Wolverhampton, Waterloo Rd, Wolverhampton, West Midlands, WV1 4DE. Find out more. 

10am: Dying Matters drop in at Birmingham Hospice Selly Park, Birmingham. Join Birmingham Hospice in their Selly Park Living Well Centre to find out more about the different types of support that is offered at the hospice. Visitors will also be welcome to visit the Hive café with a range of snacks and drinks available. There is no need to book in advance, and anyone wanting to visit can just turn up on the day. The team look forward to welcoming you then! Address: Birmingham Hospice, 176 Raddlebarn Road, Birmingham, West Midlands, B29 7DA.

12pm - 4pm: The Myton Hospices and Coughton Court, National Trust, Alcester. The Community Engagement Manager from The Myton Hospices, Olivia Bowskill (Registered Nurse), will be joining Coughton Court, National Trust property, with their Dying Matters Awareness Week activities on Friday 10th May from 12pm – 4pm. Olivia will be available to chat, answer questions and provide a deeper insight into the work done at The Myton Hospices. Whether you want to know more about Myton, are interested in their services, or just want to say hello, Olivia will be there to welcome you! Address: Coughton Court, National Trust, Alcester, Warwickshire, B49 5JA.

6.30pm: Colder Than Here. The Shakespeare Hospice, in association with The Bear Pit Theatre Company, invites you watch a scene from ‘Colder Than Here’ by Laura Wade. The play is about a woman dying of bone cancer and her family coming to terms with her impending death. Though a play about cancer, the play finds opportunities for joy and laughter—a testament to family, relationships and finding light even in the darkest of times. Doors will open from 6:30pm. The scene will be followed by a Q&A session with the cast, crew & Hospice staff. It is free to attend and light refreshments will be provided. Book your place via this link. Address: The Shakespeare Hospice, Church Lane, Shottery, Warwickshire, CV37 9UL.

Saturday 11th May

10am: Open Day, Chesterfield. You are welcomed to an open day at Granville's Wood, a natural burial ground. Abi from Woven Funerals will also be giving a demonstration and answering questions about willow coffins. Address: Walton Woods, Chesterfield S42 7LG

12pm: Flowers to Die For, Birmingham. Join sustainable florist Carole Patilla of Tuckshop Flowers for her interactive funeral flowers pop-up display in Birmingham’s grade II listed Coffin Works - formerly Newman Brothers, the last coffin-furniture manufacturer in the UK who operated from these Fleet Street premises for over 100 years.  This Dying Matters Awareness Week event celebrates the public launch of The Farewell Flowers Directory which aims to connect people with natural, compostable choices for funeral flowers across the UK. Come and have a joyful chat about how  funeral flowers can reflect your personality and life without leaving behind a legacy of plastic.  You'll get the chance to meet ‘Miriam’ - Carole’s original shareable casket spray, to explore ideas for what natural, sustainable funeral flowers can be and to make your own compostable mini wreath with a dried flower embellishment to take away. The pop-up event is free but admission charges for the museum apply. Address: The Coffin Works, 13-15 Fleet Street, Birmingham, West Midlands, B3 1JP. Find out more.

Monday 13th May

11am: Dying Matters awareness coffee morning, Northamptonshire. A drop-in coffee morning for local people to come to Lakelands Hospice and ask for advice, answers to questions etc. Hoping to break down the barriers around death and dying. Address: Lakelands Hospice, Butland Road, Corby, Northamptonshire, NN18 8LX.

Thursday 4th July

7:30pm: Much Ado About Dying film screening, Shrewsbury. Released to coincide with Dying Matters Week, this multi-award winning and critically acclaimed feature film will play in cinemas and arts spaces across the UK. The film follows director Simon Chambers after his uncle David calls him with a message of doom: “I think I may be dying.” What the viewer doesn’t yet know is that David is a total drama queen, a former actor and Shakespeare-lover who has grown old on a diet of attention and applause. Simon finds his life drastically interrupted and everything that could go wrong does go wrong as he tries to help his uncle have a good death. Address: Wem Town Hall, 28-32 High St, Wem, Shrewsbury, Shropshire, SY4 5DG. Tickets available here.

Friday 26th April

11am: Dying Matters theatre workshop for local residents, London. A friendly and creative series of workshops led by Chickenshed Theatre, North London Hospice and Haringey Council Supported Living. Through stories, music and movement we will be working towards helpful and supportive ways to talk about death and dying with the people important to us. These workshops invite people to explore the language and conversations we have around death and dying with our families, carers, friends and healthcare professionals. Address: Harmony Hall, Bigbury Close, North Tottenham, London, Haringey, N17 8JQ. Check out the poster.

Thursday 2nd May

9am: Dying Matters - Never Too Young To Start Talking, Norwich. Meet over 30 local charities and organisations at this information-rich event ahead of Dying Matters Week. There will also be talks taking place in the auditorium. Address: The Forum, Millennium Plain, Norwich, East of England, NR2 1TF. Find out more.

Friday 3rd May

11am: Dying Matters theatre workshop for local residents, London. One of a friendly and creative series of workshops led by Chickenshed Theatre, North London Hospice and Haringey Council Supported Living. Through stories, music and movement we will be working towards helpful and supportive ways to talk about death and dying with the people important to us. These workshops invite people to explore the language and conversations we have around death and dying with our families, carers, friends and healthcare professionals. Address: Harmony Hall, Bigbury Close, North Tottenham, London, Haringey, N17 8JQ. Check out the poster.

3:30pm: Much Ado About Dying + Director Q&A, London. Released to coincide with Dying Matters Week, this multi-award winning and critically acclaimed feature film will play in cinemas and arts spaces across the UK. The film follows director Simon Chambers after his uncle David calls him with a message of doom: “I think I may be dying.” What the viewer doesn’t yet know is that David is a total drama queen, a former actor and Shakespeare-lover who has grown old on a diet of attention and applause. Simon finds his life drastically interrupted and everything that could go wrong does go wrong as he tries to help his uncle have a good death. Address: Arthouse Crouch End, London, Greater London, N8 9BT. Watch the trailer. Tickets available here.

Saturday 4th May

1pm - 4:30pm: Doing death differently, Brighton. A workshop to explore how we can improve society’s support for dying and grieving people, and make change together. All welcome. Address: Friends Meeting House, Ship Street, Brighton, Sussex, BN1 1AF. Tickets available here.

Sunday 5th May

3:15pm: Choral Classics: ‘Requiem’ for Dying Matters Awareness Week, London. Filled with hope and solace, this beautiful 45-minute Choral Classics, featuring a selection from the Requiems of Mozart, Brahms, Faure, Durufle as several movements from Trotta's new Requiem. Requiem is a new album of choral music music of hope and peace, from which the streaming revenue from Dying Matters Week will be in-aid of Hospice UK. Listen to Requiem here.  Unique in its ability to bring healing and solace into the public conversation, the Requiem Mass captivates the hearts and minds of those who have experienced loss. Choral Classics is FREE to attend and all are welcome. A retiring collection is taken to support the work of St Martin-in-the-Fields. This concert will also be live streamed. St Martin-in-the-Fields, Trafalgar Square, London, WC2N 4JJ. Find out more. Listen to Requiem.

Monday 6th May

10am: Poetry Speaks, Oxford. Living Well Sobell House runs creative peer support sessions for people living with a palliative illness. The groups are often attended by people who share their love of poetry, or their skills as a poet. Where we might struggle to verbalise the words to talk about the human experience of death and dying, a poem - or song lyric - captures it perfectly and deeply. Patients, staff and volunteers have shared their favourite poems that communicate about life and its ending and displayed them for all our hospice users to read. Address: Sobell House Hospice, Oxford, Oxon, OX3 7LE.   

11am: Dying Matters Week, Luton. NHS Community Services in Luton withh be celebrating Dying Matters Week. Address: The Poynt, Bucks, Luton, LU4 0LA.

11am: Dying Matters, London. Azalea Court, a nursing home in Enfield, will be providing information and offering tea and cake over a chat. Address: 58 Abbey Road, Enfield, EN1 2QN.

6pm: Much Ado About Dying film screening, Lewes. Released to coincide with Dying Matters Week, this multi-award winning and critically acclaimed feature film will play in cinemas and arts spaces across the UK. The film follows director Simon Chambers after his uncle David calls him with a message of doom: “I think I may be dying.” What the viewer doesn’t yet know is that David is a total drama queen, a former actor and Shakespeare-lover who has grown old on a diet of attention and applause. Simon finds his life drastically interrupted and everything that could go wrong does go wrong as he tries to help his uncle have a good death. Address: Lewes Depot, Lewes, East Sussex, BN7 2JS. Watch the trailer. Tickets available here.

Monday 6th - Sunday 12th May

The Open Book, Norfolk. The Healing Harbour Charity based in North Norfolk wants to support people in their community to share their experiences of 'Dying Matters'. They will be offering an open journal in which people can contribute. The journal will be based at Sheringham Library during Dying Matters Week. The purpose of the journal is to encourage open communication and increase awareness of the lived experiences of people in North Norfolk, as they matter. Address: Sheringham Library, Sheringham, Norfolk, NR26 8EB.

The way we talk about Dying Matters, Colchester Hospital. ESNEFT will be promoting conversations all week (from 4th to 7th May) around how we talk about death, dying and loss between healthcare professionals, patients and their loved ones and carers. It is an opportunity for us to explore those terms we use everyday in our hospitals, that are commonly mis-understood by healthcare professionals and everyone. There will be a static stand at both Ipswich (outside the courtyard restaurant) and Colchester Hospital (in the main reception foyer) sites, with literature and essential ESNEFT teams who will be available to discuss the way we talk about specific words relating to their field - including chaplaincy (and the term spirituality), transfer of care (and the term 'fast track discharge'), palliative care (and the words 'palliative' and 'end of life'), our end of life Butterfly Volunteer Service (and the word support), our bereavement and mortuary teams and our charity team. There are several drop in sessions happening during the week for staff and the public at our Ipswich Hospital Butterfly Centre (Tuesday focussing on dementia, Wednesday with Suffolk family carers and Friday death cafe style staff drop in). We also have our end of life Time Garden open to the public on Tuesday in Colchester Hospital, supported by our Butterfly Service. Our palliative consultants are also doing a session at ESNEFT's 'Grand Round' lunch time teaching, for our staff (which will be available via teams).

Tuesday 7th May

10am - 12pm: Dying Matters event with Haringey Libraries, London. Come and meet North London Hospice at their pop-up morning stall at Wood Green Library. The team look forward to meeting you and asking how you like to speak about death and dying. There will also be book recommendations and resources on offer. Address: Wood Green Library, 187-197a High Road, Wood Green, London, N22 6XD. 

10am: The Departure Lounge, Norfolk. A pop-up installation on the theme of an airport departure lounge, aimed at encouraging accessible public conversation about death and dying. Provides information, opportunities to write last postcards, conversation and refreshments. Organised and run as a collaboration between The Norfolk Hospice Tapping House and Marie Curie. Address: The Place, 23 New Conduit Street, Vancouver Quarter, King's Lynn, Norfolk, PE301DE.

10am: Dying matters awareness event, Stevenage. A stand in the Well Being Hub in the main corridor of the Lister Hospital highlighting the work of Dying Matters and the importance of how we talk about dying. Including the 'What is Your Superpower' Quiz, thinking about skin care for the dying person, the work of the Butterfly Volunteer Service and the Specialist Palliative Care Team. Address: Coreys Mill Lane, Stevenage, Hertfordshire, SG1 4AB.

1:00pm: Talking about Dying, Matters, London. Royal Hospital for Neurodisability - Putney, are hosting an interactive event to think about why Dying Matters, why planning ahead is important and how they can support staff and patients. Address: Royal Hospital for Neurodisability, London, SW15 3SW. 

2pm: Good Grief Gathering Afternoon Tea, Hertfordshire. Isabel Hospice is hosting an afternoon, welcoming anyone who has experienced grief or for anyone wanting to understand how to support someone who is grieving. This afternoon will allow time to explore, learn and share with others our experience of grief.  It will delve into the language used around grief and how important it is. Afternoon tea is provided and the session is free of charge. Address: Ware Priory, Ware, Hertfordshire, SG12 9AL. Find out more.

2:30pm: Death Café, Cambridge. To mark Dying Matters Week, CBC Ltd in collaboration with Cancer Research UK CI and Cambridge University Hospitals are running a Death Café. The Death Café will be facilitated by Tina O’Hara, Lead Nurse for End of Life Care, at Addenbrooke’s Hospital. There will be free tea, coffee and cake! Please register so the team know how much to order! Address: Cancer Research UK, Cambridge Institute, Cambridge, Cambridgeshire. CB2 0RE. Register here.

3pm: Navigating a Life-Changing Diagnosis: 7 Keys for more Choice and Control, Norwich. Come to The Friends Café at Priscilla Bacon Lodge to welcome Doctors Sammy Winemaker and Hsien Seow, co-creators of the Waiting Room Revolution and authors of the new book ‘Hope for the Best, Plan for the Rest’, which outlines the 7 Keys to take charge and remain in control after a life-changing diagnosis. This event will feature a reading from the book, Q&A session and chance to get your books signed. This event is for patients and families, health care providers and members of the public. To book your place email the events team at Priscilla Bacon Hospice or call 01603 776600. Please note: you must pre-order a copy of the book (£16.99) at registration by 24th April to guarantee a signed copy. Address: Priscilla Bacon Lodge, Century Place, Colney Lane, Norwich, Norfolk, NR4 7YA. Find out more.

4pm - 7pm: Let's get talking about Dying Matters theatre workshop for local residents, London. Come and meet North London Hospice at the Somali Culture Celebration at Edmonton Green Library. The team look forward to meeting you and learning about Somali practices and traditions. There'll be book recommendations, resources and an activity. Address: Edmonton Green Library, 36-44 South Mall, Edmonton Green, London, N9 0TN. Check out the poster.

6:30pm: Brighton Death Café. Time and space to come together and talk about your thoughts and feelings around death and dying. The Death Cafe's aim is to increase awareness of death and to break down taboos around discussing it. The event is free with hot drinks and cake available. Address: The Modern Funeral, 19 Station Road, Brighton, BN1 6SF. Find out more.

7pm: Death Café, St Albans. A free and safe space to talk about death, dying and loss. Address: 5b Verulam Road, St Albans, AL3 4DA. Book your place.                                       

Wednesday 8th May                                    

8:30am - 4:30pm: ‘Getting your house in order’ 35th Palliative Care Conference, Norfolk. A free palliative care conference focused on Advance Care Planning. A wealth of fantastic speakers will be hosting topical sessions and celebrating 'Advance Care Planning Day', which falls on the same date as the conference. Attendees will also be able to learn more about the upcoming UK Tour with Dr Sammy Winemaker and Dr Hsien Seow, which aims to promote Advance Care Planning through amplifying the messages in their podcast "Waiting Room Revolution" as well as their book. Address: Norfolk and Norwich University Hospitals, John Innes Centre, Colney Lane, Norwich, NR4 7UY. Book your free place. 

'Getting your house in order' at Pilgrim's Hospices, East Kent. The above conference will be streamed live across Pilgrims Hospices' three sites in East Kent - a great learning and networking experience. In-person attendees will receive complimentary refreshments and lunch. Site post codes: CT2 8HQ, TN24 0NE, CT9 4AD. Email the team to reserve your place.

9am: Dying Matters Coffee Morning, Pitsea. A coffee morning at Co-Op Funeralcare Pitsea to talk about death, what we can do to support Families and to talk about a loved ones wishes. Address: Co-Op Funeralcare 85 Rectory Road, Pitsea, Essex, SS13 2AF.  

9am: Death, Dying and all that Jazz, Middlesex. A palliative update conference aimed at all who support people towards the end of life. A range of diverse topics will be covered, e.g. how to support children facing loss, top tips on symptoms, supporting family carers and an update on assisted dying! The cost is £30 for the day including lunch and yummy biscuits! Address: Michael Sobell Centre, Mount Vernon Hospital, Gate 3, Northwood, Middlesex, HA6 2RN. Find out more.                                

10am: Dying matters awareness event, Stevenage. Join A.R.K. Lasting Powers and Wills in the main corridor of the Lister Hospital to celebrate Dying Matters Week, but also the first National Advance care planning day. A.R.K can answer those unanswered questions about wills, probate but also Lasting Powers of Attorney - have you got your house in order? Address: Coreys Mill Lane, Stevenage, Hertfordshire, SG1 4AB. 

10am - 2pm: Broadstairs Library Dying Matters Coffee Morning, Broadstairs. A drop in coffee morning at Broadstairs Library. Address: Broadstairs Library, The Broadway, Broadstairs, Kent, CT10 2BS.

11am - 2pm: What is an Advance Care Plan? Watford. Come and chat with the Rennie Grove Peace team & the Macmillan team. Advance Care Planning is looking at what kind of care you’d like to have in the future. Taking place in the main foyer of Watford General Hospital (by the Macmillan information Centre). Address: Watford General Hospital, Watford, Herts, WD18 0HB

11am - 2pm: Advance Care Plan Stall, Hertfordshire. Advance Care Plan Stall with the West Hertfordshire Teaching Hospitals Trust and Rennie Grove Peace Hospice Care. Come along to meet staff and find out more abut how to plan for your future. Address: Outisde the Macmillan Information Centre, West Hertfordshire Teaching Hospitals Trust, Vicarage Road, Hertfordshire, WD18 0HB.                  

11am: Lets talk about death - your choices matter, Ipswich. A drop in café session inviting staff, residents and relatives to drop in to help break the taboo around death. The aim will be to encourage residents/relatives to think about choices that matter to them at end of life, and for staff to feel confident to initiate end of life choice discussions. Address: Avocet Court Care Home, Ipswich, IP2 8RS.                

11am - 3pm: Dying for a Cuppa, London. A free event covering Advance Care/End of Life Planning and the opportunity to talk about Death, Dying and Bereavement. Enjoy a free tea or coffee and chat to members of the Future Matters team about topics including Advance Care Plans, Lasting Powers of Attorney, Wills and Funeral Planning. No booking is necessary to this event. Address: Islington Green Park, Upper Street/Essex Road, London, N1 1NR. Find out more.

12pm: Dying Matters Lunch, Heathfield. We are holding a Dying Matters free lunch at Union Church, Heathfield to talk about why the way we talk about death matters. I will be talking as owner of White Feather Funerals in Heathfield about the specific language that funeral directors change and why it needs to change as currently some of the traditional terms used in the profession dehumanize the person who has died. This will be followed by lunch and then a talk from a local bereavement counsellor about how we can talk to others about their grief. This event precedes our monthly free bereavement group held at this venue. Donation tins will be made available for our local hospices St Wilfrid's and Hospice In The Weald. Address: The Hall, Union Church, Station Road, Heathfield, East Sussex, TN21 8LB. 

2pm: Lets get talking Afternoon Tea, Sawbridgeworth. We have invited staff from our different units to join us for Afternoon Tea to discuss the language we use and the communication methods that staff can use that can give them confidence to have important conversations about Death & Dying. There will be an open discussion regarding staff confidence and competence in having these important conversations. Address: Jacob Neurological Centre, Sawbridgeworth, Hertfordshire, CM21 0HH.           

2pm - 4pm: Let's talk about Dying Matters at Colindale Library, London. Come and meet North London Hospice at their pop-up afternoon at Colindale Library. They look forward to meeting you and asking how you like to speak about death and dying. There'll also be book recommendations and resources. Address: Colindale Library, 7 Bristol Ave, Barnet, London, NW9 4BR. 

6pm: The Last Taboo, Beccles. Why do some many of us struggle to talk about death and dying? The evening will begin with a conversation between the facilitator and Rebekah Domer, an end of life doula. This will be followed by an opportunity for discussion and sharing in a structured and supportive setting. Address: Beccles Library, Blyburgate, Beccles, Suffolk, NR34 9TB.

6pm: Talk & Tour with Royal Trinity Hospice, London. Interested in knowing more about Trinity and hospices in general? Join this free open house evening to learn a little bit more about what they do. You'll have the opportunity to meet members of our clinical and non-clinical teams and visit different areas of the hospice. You'll also hear about our work in the wider community and the difference we make in the lives of our patients and their families. Address: 30 Clapham Common North Side, London, SW4 0RN. Find out more.

6pm: Multi-faith roundtable discussion, Milton Keynes. Willen Hospice, in partnership with Gamiel Yafai, author & award-winning diversity & inclusion strategist, the local community in Milton Keynes is warmly invited to an open roundtable discussion event focused on "The Way We Talk About Dying Matters." The event aims to foster open and honest conversations about death, dying, and grief. The hospice is honoured to welcome the High Sheriff of Buckinghamshire, Kurshida Mirza BEM, as a special guest for the roundtable event. Kurshida will be joined on the panel by seven chaplains representing different faiths. Embracing the theme of communication and language when discussing end-of-life care, the hospice team is looking forward to opening dialogue with members of our diverse community groups in our multi-cultural city. Address: Willen Hospice, Milton Keynes, Bucks, MK15 9AB.

6pm: Tickets for the Afterlife, London. Tickets for the Afterlife is a web app created by Redbridge, Kirklees and Newcastle Libraries, in collaboration with Dr Stacey Pitsillides and Professor Claire Nally from Northumbria University. The web applications helps you explore options of what to do with your body, memories and legacies when you die. It also connects you to reading materials in your local library to help you further your inquiry. The application will be on display at Redbridge Central library during Dying Matters Week, along with other arts installations that will encourage you to think about your end of life wishes.  If you are unable to visit the library, then the app can be accessed at home by visiting the Tickets for the Afterlife website. Curated book collections will also be available across Redbridge Libraries and in our virtual library too. Address: Redbridge Central Library, Clements Road, Ilford, Greater London, IG1 1EA. Access the app. Find out more.

6:30pm: Q and A on the issues around Assisted Dying, Twyford. Opportunity for an update on the issues around legalising assisted dying in the UK. Address: Twyford village hall, Twyford, Hants, SO21 1QY.

Wednesday 8th May - Friday 10th May

10am: Dying Matters Week, Brighton. The palliative care team based in the Royal Sussex County Hospital plan to have a stall and display in the foyer of the hospital highlighting the importance of talking about advance care planning, future care, LPA, wills and starting conversations. The team will also put information in the hospital library aimed at medical staff who may not be very experienced about how to start these conversations. Address: Royal Sussex County Hospital, Brighton, East Sussex, BN2 5BE.

Thursday 9th May           

9am: Nunn Hayward Inheritance Tax Planning Drop-in Clinic, Gerrards Cross. Free drop-in clinic hosted by accountants based in Gerrards Cross. Here, people can talk to experts about their future plans. A local Solicitor and Independent Financial Advisor will also be present to provide a full spectrum of advice on Inheritance Planning and protecting your estate. Drop by to find out how to do this in the most tax efficient way for your families in the future. Address: Gerrards Cross Memorial Centre, 8 East Common, Gerrards Cross, SL9 7AD. Take a look at the poster. Find out more.

9:30am - 12pm: Dying Matters drop in session, Hertfordshire. Drop in session for staff, patients, relatives or carers to come and talk with the different services within the West Hertfordshire Teaching Hospitals Trust who support patients and their families at the end of life. Address: Lecture Theatre 2 (MEC), West Hertfordshire Teaching Hospitals Trust, Vicarage Road, Hertfordshire, WD18 0HB.                                

10am: Dying matters awareness event, Stevenage. A stand in the Well Being Hub in the main corridor of the Lister Hospital highlighting the work of Dying Matters and the importance of how we talk about dying. Including the 'What is Your Superpower' Quiz, thinking about skin care for the dying person, the work of the Butterfly Volunteer Service and the Specialist Palliative Care Team. Address: Coreys Mill Lane, Stevenage, Hertfordshire, SG1 4AB. 

1pm: Regis Primary Care Network Dying Matters Awareness, Bognor Regis. A one hour presentation and question and answers with a local GP, community nurses, paramedic practitioner, hospice community nurse, solicitor, carers team and many others. All patients and carers welcome to join. Address: Flansham Park Health Centre, Bognor Regis, West Sussex, PO22 6DH. Find out more.

2pm: Death from all angles: Weekly Bereavement Help Point with Centre, London. What is a Bereavement Help Point?​ A Bereavement Help Point is a place you can go following a bereavement, to speak to others who are facing loss and share experiences.​ What happens at a Help Point?​ Each week volunteers from Centre 70 will welcome you to come and talk, get to know others, and chat about how you are feeling. This is not a therapy group, but a space where you can talk about grief and loss with other people who have had similar experiences.​ You might want to talk about your loved one who has died, or you might not, either way you are welcome to join.How do I join?​ You can just come along and meet us, no forms or referral needed. We meet in West Norwood Library Community Room every Thursday 2pm-4pm. Get in touch by emailing the team or calling 020 8670 2775. Address: West Norwood Library Community Room, 1-5 Norwood High Street, London, SE27 9JX. Find out more about the Bereavement Help Point. Find out more about Centre 70.

2pm: Poppy's mortuary open day, London. This Dying Matters Week, Poppy's want to open up a conversation about great death care — what it is and why it matters. Knowing that the people close to us are treated with care and respect after they've died can make a huge difference to family and friends. It’s something that affects us all, yet often care for the dead is shrouded in secrecy and silence. Poppy's are proud of the care they give and are pushing for excellent care to become normal across the sector. Join them at their Dying Matters Week open day to see for yourself. Visit their beautiful light-filled mortuary in Lambeth Cemetery (Tooting), meet the team, learn more about how they care for the dead, and ask any questions. The visit starts at 2pm and lasts about an hour. Address: The Gatehouse, Lambeth Cemetery, Blackshaw Road, London, SW17 0BY. Book your place.

2pm: Book Reading - Hope for the Best, Plan for the Rest, Ipswich. You are invited to come along to St Elizabeth Hospice to hear a reading from a fantastic book called Hope for the Best, Plan for the Rest written by Dr Sammy Winemaker and Dr Hsien Seow, who will also be answering questions on the day. Signed copies of Hope for the Best, Plan for the Rest can be pre-ordered when you book your ticket and collected on arrival. Please complete the booking form for each individual who will be attending. Address: St. Elizabeth Hospice, Ipswich, Suffolk, IP3 8LX. Book your place.

6pm: Power of Planning Ahead Café, London. A relaxed, informal and social practical session for anyone interested in finding out more about their options when making plans for when they die and afterwards. There will be plenty of opportunities to share hopes, expectations and ask questions over a glass of wine or soft drink with the support our "What matters to me" booklet. Address: Royal Trinity Hospice, 30 Clapham Common Northside, London, SW4 0RN. Find out more.

Thursday 9th - Friday 10th May

From 9am: High Street Discussion, Chelmsford. Co-op Funeral Directors will be in Chelmsford High Street discussing death, dying, pre-payment funeral plans, and more. Address: Chelmsford Star Co-op, Chelmsford, Essex, CM2 0LS.   

Friday 10th May

10am: Dying Matters Coffee Morning, Wickford. A Coffee Morning at Co-op Funeralcare Wickford to discuss death & funerals, also known as the "Elephant in the Room". Address: Co-op Funeral Care, 65a High Street, Wickford, Essex, SS12 9AQ. 

10am: Living Well, Dying Matters, Brentwood. Come and have the big conversations with us - advance care planning, the legalities you should know, how important is the language we use around death, dying and grief. Eight organisations are taking part including Saint Francis Hospice, the local authority, St. Thomas' Church, care homes, and funeral directors. Refreshments available 10am-1pm. Address: St Thomas of Canterbury Church, Thomas Road, Brentwood, Essex, CM14 4DF.

10am: Compassionate Cafe, South Lowestoft, Suffolk. Drop in for a cuppa and a chat with our lovely volunteers, about life, death and everything in between in a friendly non-judgemental atmosphere. This session will be focussed on grief, death and dying, but we are happy to talk about anything that might be causing you worry. It's a drop in session from 10am to 12pm, and there's no need to book a place, just turn up. Address: Everitt Room, Lowestoft Library, Clapham Rd South Lowestoft, Suffolk, NR32 1DR

10am: Living Well and Dying Matters, Brentwood. An opportunity to come and speak to Saint Francis Hospice, Home Instead, Bennetts Funeral Directors and Pinney Talfourd Solicitors about local services, activities and information on caring for loved ones at the end of their lives. Address: Merrymeade Tea Rooms, Merrymeade Chase, Brentwood, Essex, CM15 9FE.   

10am - 2pm: What matters most to you? Cambridge. This is an opportunity for patients, family members and staff who are in the hospital outpatients area to visit our stand to discuss all things about advance care planning. We want people to have an opportunity to think about what matters most to you? We look forward to having some interesting conversations. Address: Main Outpatients, Addenbrookes Hospital, Cambridge University Hospitals, Hills Rd, Cambridge, CB2 0QQ.

10am - 2pm: Café at the Hall, Oxford. A free café run by St Peter and St Paul and Oliver & James Funeral Directors. We will be joined by experts who can help you talk about the difficult things, what's worrying you, what you need to plan and how to talk to your loved ones. A soup lunch is available. Address: St Peter & St Paul Church Hall, West Way, Botley, Oxford, Oxfordshire, OX2 9JY. 

10:30am: Dying Matters event, Norfolk. Talking openly about death and grief really matters, says Sharon Wood, a local Independent Celebrant and End of Life Planning Facilitator who comes from a 30 year career as a healthcare professional. This free event will include 'Dying Matters' resources, various displays relating to grief including the Dandelion Library (a free to use death positive/grief support mobile library run by Sharon) and a presentation with Q&A at 11.15am. Light refreshments will be available to buy at the lovely Belfry Centre Café. Address: The Belfry Arts and Community Centre, Overstrand, Norfolk, NR27 0NT. 

11am: Dying Matters theatre workshop for local residents, London. One of a friendly and creative series of workshops led by Chickenshed Theatre, North London Hospice and Haringey Council Supported Living. Through stories, music and movement we will be working towards helpful and supportive ways to talk about death and dying with the people important to us. These workshops invite people to explore the language and conversations we have around death and dying with our families, carers, friends and healthcare professionals. Address: Harmony Hall, Bigbury Close, North Tottenham, London, Haringey, N17 8JQ. Check out the poster.

11am - 2:30pm: Dying Matters Table Top, Hertfordshire. Share a memory on the display board, bring a small photo/photocopy of your loved one to display and write your message in remembrance of those you have lost but will never be forgotten. The Dining Room Restaurant (hospital canteen), West Hertfordshire Teaching Hospitals Trust, Vicarage Road, Hertfordshire, WD18 0HB. 

Dying Matters hospital stall, Southend. A stall will be run within the hospital to raise awareness surround Dying Matters. It will be supported by palliative care staff, chaplains, and the bereavement team. There will also be various activities at the stall, such as question time, ribbons for loved ones on a remembrance tree, cakes, mortuary tours and more. Address: Southend hospital, Prittlewell Chase, Southend, Essex, SS0 0RY.

1pm - 4pm: Dying Matters: Lunch and Panel Discussion, London. The way we talk about Dying Matters- Lunch and and Panel Discussions with Invited Guest from Multi-Disciplinary Team Members. Address: Hammerson House, 50 Bishops Avenue, London, N2 0BE. 

1:30pm: Death Café, Surrey. Encouraging thoughtful conversations around death, dying & bereavement over coffee & cake. The café is free and open to all to speak freely and without judgement. There is no set agenda, just a facilitated discussion following the interest of those attending. Email Oxted Library if you're interested in attending. Address: Oxted Library, 14 Gresham Road, Oxted, Surrey, RH8 0BQ. Find out more.

6pm: Death Over Dinner, London. You are invited to Death Over Dinner, a unique dinner experience where guests are invited to share their thoughts, fears, and questions about death and dying in a safe and supportive environment. Death is a topic often avoided but important to discuss. Let's break the taboo and explore this much avoided topic together over nice food and wine. Reserve your spot today! This event is not meant to be a counselling session or a bereavement support group but a discussion group , providing the opportunity to share thoughts on one's own mortality and see death not as an enemy but a part of life. This event will be hosted in a private residence in W2. The location of the dinner will be provided 24hrs before. Call the organiser for any issues finding or accessing the venue. Closest tube stations are Paddington, Lancaster Gate, and Queensway. Address: Private residence in Bayswater, London, W2. Find out the details and book your place. Learn more about Death Over Dinners.

6:30pm: In-conversation on death preparedness with Doctors Hsien Seow and Samantha Winemaker, Canterbury. Death should not be a taboo. If it is, when you get a terminal diagnosis, it can be overwhelming. While your diagnosis cannot be changed, the way you experience your illness can. In their book Hope for the Best, Plan for the Rest, Seow and Winemaker have combined decades of experience in caring for thousands of seriously ill patients. Harnessing their advice, they present a roadmap that every patient and family will benefit from. Address: Waterstones Canterbury (8 Rose Lane), Canterbury, Kent, CT1 2SJ. Find out more.

Saturday 11th May

10:30am: Reading Crematorium Open Day, Reading. Tour the backstage where the cremations take place. Ask all the questions you may have about cremation, funerals and burial. Explore the tranquil gardens and sit on the crematorium's Afterlife bench. Address: Reading Crematorium, 55 All Hallows Road, Caversham, Reading, Berkshire, RG4 5LP. Book your place.                                   

11:30: A singing workshop by Companion Voices, Brighton. Companion Voices are singers who gather together to learn songs to sing at the bedsides of people who are dying. Songs are drawn from different traditions to create a soundscape to accompany people as they take their leave of life. ‘My experience of learning to be a Companion has been profoundly rewarding and satisfying’ - Kay. Reserve your place at the workshop.

2pm: Author talk by Corinna Edwards-Colledge, Brighton. Author Corinna Edwards-Colledge reads excerpts from about her novella ‘The Door that shouldn’t have been there’. Her novella is a modern fairy tale about grief, hope and recovery for everyone who has lost a loved one. The readings will be followed by a Q & A and a discussion about grief and creativity with visual artist Wendy Pye. Books will be available to purchase at the event. Address: Jubilee Library, Jubilee Street, Brighton, East Sussex, BN1 1GE. Book your place.  

2pm - 4pm: Dying to Share, Hove. Dying to Share is about connection - we have grief and loss in common. Hannah hosts a safe place for everyone to share what is present for them and meet people who can relate. Our talking points may include: Society, words and phrases, life, choice, shock, illness and grief. Please arrive from 2pm. At 2.30pm doors will close for discussion to take place in a relaxed and uninterrupted way. Herbal tea, home-made cake and biscuits are provided. There will be gluten-free and vegan options available. Dying to Share is held on the top floor of the Cornerstone. It is beautiful, calm space and very private. It is fully accessible and has a lift for wheelchair access. Dying to Share is an opportunity for members of our local community to share and story-tell their experiences of grief and loss with the intention to increase awareness of death and dying with the desire to help us all live and die well. Be supported as you share with like-hearted locals, come alone, or with friends. This event is for everyone and for all ages and is free to attend. Address: Cornerstone Community Centre, Church Road, Hove, East Sussex, BN3 2FL. Find out more and book your place.

3:30pm: Dead Good Film Screening, Brighton. A film showing of Dead Good, an intimate portrait of those dealing with their dead.  No booking required. Dame Emma Thompson said about the film: ‘Beautifully crafted, so comforting as well as moving….everyone should see this’. Address: Jubilee Library, Jubilee Street, Brighton, East Sussex, BN1 1GE. Find out more.

4pm - 5:30pm: A panel discussion with Dr. Kathryn Mannix and Guests, London. Writer, campaigner and former palliative care doctor Kathryn Mannix will be joined by two leading Canadian palliative care specialists - Dr Sammy Winemaker and Dr Hsien Seow - to discuss the need for broader conversations around death and dying as part of Dying Matters Week 2024. Organised in collaboration with St Christopher’s Centre for Awareness and Response to End of Life (CARE), Waterstones and Hospice UK, the event is open to the public and professionals. Join Kathryn and her guests to ponder how we might improve public understanding of dying, encourage better planning ahead, and incorporate palliative care far earlier in long-term illnesses. The panel hopes for an enthusiastic audience of the public as well as healthcare colleagues, and there will be ample time for audience questions and discussion. Address: Waterstones London - Gower Street, 82 Gower Street, London, WC1E 6EQ. Find out more and book tickets.

Saturday 11th - Sunday 12th May

11am - 5pm: Burial Shrouds Exhibition/Open Studios, Brighton. Exhibition of bespoke shrouds for green and traditional funerals. Visit Dagmara in her studio, 3S6 at Phoenix Art Space,  and find out why making a shroud for yourself or your loved one can help with processing grief or the anticipation of death and how choosing a shroud made from salvaged textiles over a traditional coffin can be easier on our planet. Part of Open Weekend. Everyone welcome, free entry. Address: 10–14 Waterloo Place, Brighton, East Sussex, BN2 9NB. Find out more.

Sunday 12th May

10am: Dying Matters Awareness - Resources and a Chance to Chat, Wolvercote. Wendy is a former registered nurse and soul midwife. She’ll be available to talk to on the day, and she’ll also bring books to browse, and leaflets and resource lists for anyone who wants to explore more in their own time. By raising awareness of Dying Matters she hopes to encourage more people to have their own conversations, at home and at work, around death and dying. All welcome! Address: Wolvercote Sunday Market at The White Hart, Wolvercote, Oxfordshire, OX2 8PQ. 

11am: Death Cafe in the Square, London. Come along for an open and honest conversation about death in honour of Dying Matters Awareness Week. Death is a topic often avoided but important to discuss. Death Cafes invite people to come together to explore feelings and conversations around life, death, and grief. They are not meant to be a counselling session or a bereavement support group but a discussion group, though your experiences on matters of death and grief are welcome. There is no agenda and the group will lead the conversation. The aim is to reflect on our finite lives so that we can better live them. Share your thoughts, fears, and questions in a safe and supportive environment. Let's break the taboo and explore this universal experience together. Address: Manchester Square, London, W1U 3PL. Book your place.

4pm: Soul Films Presents, Studio 3NS, Brighton. For Dying Matters week join Wendy Pye, co-founder of Soul Films, at her studio 3NS as part of the Brighton Phoenix Art Space open studios weekend. She will host an intimate screening event (max 8 people) in her studio that will include a new short Soul Film created in memory of Death Cafe founder John Underwood (running time 10mins), along with two other short Soul Films (running time 20 mins). Wendy will introduce the concept of Soul Films and discuss how participating in a Soul Film can support the grieving process and encourage conversations about death and dying. There will be time for a discussion and questions at the end. Soul Films are sensitively produced short films that honour and celebrate individuals who have died or are nearing the end of life. A QR code linking to the film online can be printed onto a memorial plaque, which will then be placed in a significant public space, creating a lasting legacy and an alternative memorial site. Book your place.

Monday 13th May

7pm: Aspects of Grief Talk: "Living with Life and Death", Oxford. As you know, there are only two things we can be absolutely certain about our lives: we are born and we die… Both can be positive or negative experiences and incorporating them into our present, including thinking about dying and how we want to deal with it is essential for all concerned. Joelle Mann's two hats are Death Cafes and Companion Voices and Joelle shall talk about those both. Address: New Road Baptist Church, Bonn Square, Oxford, Oxfordshire, OX1 1LQ. Find out more.           

Tuesday 14th May

Dying matters in Tower Hamlets, London. A variety of awareness-raising and engagement events for health and care professionals, and local residents in Tower Hamlets. Please check social media for further information (@NHS_NELondon - X/Twitter account). Address: In accessible community locations across Tower Hamlets, London (more details to be shared via social media).

5pm: Death Café in Oxford. This Death Café meets monthly. A Death Café is a group directed discussion of death and dying over tea and cake with no agenda, objectives or themes. It is a discussion group rather than offering grief support, and is definitely not a counselling session. Far from being sombre or macabre occasions, Death Cafés offer an opportunity to explore and share our thoughts around the subject of living and dying in a safely contained, friendly and relaxed environment. The organiser has personally been involved with many aspects of living with death and dying for many years and knows that doing so makes living a whole lot easier. Address: Old Fire Station Café, 40 George St, Oxford OX1 2AQ. Find out more.

6:30pm: Death Matters: Planning Ahead for the Inevitable, London. Ann Kenrick will lead an informative, entertaining and thought-provoking session outlining key decisions you can make in advance to ease the burden on your family and friends if you lose mental capacity. Experience shows that planning ahead can help those you love immeasurably and not doing so can cause serious family rifts. When a family knows your wishes, this can provide some certainty and comfort during a difficult time. Areas covered will include: why you need a will and why you should keep it up to date; why it is important to record your wishes if you lose physical or mental capacity; why it is crucial to have Lasting Powers of Attorney for financial affairs and for health in place; and how to have important delicate and tender conversations with family and friends. Address: East Dulwich Tavern, 1 Lordship Lane, London, UK, SE22 8EW. Book your place.

6.30pm - 8pm: Make a Will seminars, Harrow. One of two evening seminars hosted by St Luke's Hospice. The session is completely free and open for everyone to attend. Shandip Shah from Balance Consultancy will present on the importance of making and having a Will, Lasting Power of Attorney and Inheritance Tax. The session will be held in the Wellbeing Activity Room at St Luke’s Hospice. There are a limited number of spaces available, so please book ahead to reserve your place. Previous attendees were able to take away valuable insights from the event and found the seminars informative and engaging. One attendee commented: "Very informative & practical. Shandip Shah has a lot of knowledge and this topic is very important for every individual."  Address: St Luke's Hospice, Kenton Grange, Kenton Road, Harrow, HA3 0YG. Find out more and book your place.

Wednesday 15th May                                 

3pm - 4:30pm: LGBTQ+ Death Café, Brighton. Brighton & Hove LGBT Switchboard is hosting a free LGBTQ+ Death Café, which will be held at a wheelchair accessible café in Hove. This is a space to talk about death with other LGBTQ+ people. Topics discussed may include: grief, funeral planning, end of life care, specific issues our community may face and more. Cake and hot drinks will be provided free of charge. Please note: this group is open to the Switchboard's Older People's, Bereavement and Dementia services too, so attendees may approach the topic of death in different ways. Places are limited so please email the team to confirm your free place. Address: Modelo Lounge, Hove, BN3 2AE. Book your place.     

6pm: Much Ado About Dying + Director Q&A, London. Released to coincide with Dying Matters Week, this multi-award winning and critically acclaimed feature film will play in cinemas and arts spaces across the UK. The film follows director Simon Chambers after his uncle David calls him with a message of doom: “I think I may be dying.” What the viewer doesn’t yet know is that David is a total drama queen, a former actor and Shakespeare-lover who has grown old on a diet of attention and applause. Simon finds his life drastically interrupted and everything that could go wrong does go wrong as he tries to help his uncle have a good death. Address: Genesis Cinema, London, E1 4UJ. Watch the trailer. Tickets available here.

6pm: Death Café, Winchester. A space to talk openly about death, dying, funerals and bereavement. No agenda, no speakers - just what you want to talk about. Your chance to ask any questions you have. You’re in safe hands as your facilitators are both funeral celebrants. Chelsea is also a qualified Funeral Director and volunteers with local charity Winchester Bereavement Support. Ruth has experience of working with bereaved families in the Coroner’s Court. Refreshments, including tasty homemade cake, are available to purchase on the day. Address: Cabinet Rooms, Jewry Street, Winchester, SO23 8SA. Find out more.

6.30pm - 8pm: Make a Will seminars, Harrow. One of two evening seminars hosted by St Luke's Hospice. The session is completely free and open for everyone to attend. Shandip Shah from Balance Consultancy will present on the importance of making and having a Will, Lasting Power of Attorney and Inheritance Tax. The session will be held in the Wellbeing Activity Room at St Luke’s Hospice. There are a limited number of spaces available, so please book ahead to reserve your place. Previous attendees were able to take away valuable insights from the event and found the seminars informative and engaging. One attendee commented: "Very informative & practical. Shandip Shah has a lot of knowledge and this topic is very important for every individual."  Address: St Luke's Hospice, Kenton Grange, Kenton Road, Harrow, HA3 0YG. Find out more and book your place.

Friday 17th May

4pm: West Norwood Cemetery's first Death Café, London. At a Death Café people, often strangers, gather to eat cake, drink tea and discuss death. The movement was started by Jon Underwood in Hackney, London, UK in 2011 and since then nearly 18,000 have been held across the globe. The idea is 'to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives'. We talk about and plan for other key life moments like birth or weddings but there is still much taboo in our society in talking about death and dying. A Death Café is a group directed discussion of death with no agenda, specific objectives or themes. What is shared is always totally confidential and it is not a grief support or counselling session. Everyone is welcome. Address: West Norwood Library, 1-5 Norwood High Street, London, SE27 9JU. Reserve a spot.

Saturday 18th May

10am: Death Café, Oxfordshire. Part of a series of four café style talks to give people a safe space to learn and talk about dying. This month the group will be talking about medical matters and our speakers will be a GP and a hospice volunteer. Address: St John's Church hall, 6 Burford Road, Carterton, Oxfordshire, OX18.

Monday 20th May

7pm: End of Life Matters: Planning Ahead for the Inevitable, London. Smart people have always known that pro-active planning for the inevitable is essential, and following the pandemic we are even more aware that we cannot plan our death but we can plan for it. Take a moment from your busy life to think about the end of it. Ann Kenrick will lead an informative, entertaining and thought-provoking session outlining key decisions you can make in advance to ease the burden on your family and friends if you lose mental capacity. Experience shows that planning ahead can help those you love immeasurably and not doing so can cause serious family rifts. When a family knows your wishes, this can provide some certainty and comfort during a difficult time. Areas covered will include: Why you need a will and why you should keep it up to date; Why it is important to record your wishes if you lose physical or mental capacity; Why it is crucial to have Lasting Powers of Attorney for financial affairs and for health in place; How to have important delicate and tender conversations with family and friends. This all may sound complex, challenging and difficult. But learn how simple it is to get these sorted and to consider matters like the type of funeral you would like; and vital matters in place like sharing passwords and making decisions on our legacy. Address: West Norwood Library, 1-5 Norwood High St, Norwood, London, UK, SE27 9JU. Find out more and book your free place.

Friday 24th May

11am: Dying Matters theatre workshop for local residents, London. One of a friendly and creative series of workshops led by Chickenshed Theatre, North London Hospice and Haringey Council Supported Living. Through stories, music and movement we will be working towards helpful and supportive ways to talk about death and dying with the people important to us. These workshops invite people to explore the language and conversations we have around death and dying with our families, carers, friends and healthcare professionals. Address: Harmony Hall, Bigbury Close, North Tottenham, London, Haringey, N17 8JQ.

Thursday 6th June

6:30pm: Good Grief Café, London. A Grief Café is a safe and confidential space to meet others, to share stories and to explore thoughts and feelings around the experience of grief and a loss. It's a supportive environment for reflection and conversation. It's a place where people will be able to find mutual support and encouragement. It may be that your loss is anticipated, recent or a long time ago. At our Grief Café there is no agenda, objective or theme; the conversation is simply led by the people in the group. Please note that this is a discussion group and not designed to be a counselling session. Join us for tea, cake and a friendly supportive ear. Everyone is welcome. We appreciate donations (minimum of £3) towards the cost of refreshments and facilitator expenses. If you are experiencing financial hardship but would like to attend then please contact us. We are unable to offer a refund if you cancel your place. We thank you for your understanding. Address: Wanstead Library, Spratt Hall Road, Wanstead, London, E11 2RQ. Book your place. 

Tuesday 30th July

'And Death Shall Have No Dominion', London. An art exhibition with paintings inspired by personal death experiences. Address: Fitzrovia, London W1T 9PN. Find out more.                                        

Sunday 28th April

4pm: Much Ado About Dying + Director Q&A, Dorset. Released to coincide with Dying Matters Week, this multi-award winning and critically acclaimed feature film will play in cinemas and arts spaces across the UK. The film follows director Simon Chambers after his uncle David calls him with a message of doom: “I think I may be dying.” What the viewer doesn’t yet know is that David is a total drama queen, a former actor and Shakespeare-lover who has grown old on a diet of attention and applause. Simon finds his life drastically interrupted and everything that could go wrong does go wrong as he tries to help his uncle have a good death. Address: Bridport Arts Centre, Bridport, Dorset, DT6 3NR. Watch the trailer. Tickets available here.                                

Thursday 2nd May

12pm: Chew Valley Death Café. Death café hosted on the first Thursday of every month. Address: Bishop Sutton Community Library, Bishop Sutton, Somerset, BS39 5UU.

7pm: The Nettle Dress - film screening, Southampton. This screening of The Nettle Dress, supported by Dead Good Days, aims to encourage people to be more open about the topic of death, dying and loss. This gentle documentary takes you through Allan's quest to painstakingly make the titular nettle dress himself, following the death of his wife - from picking the nettles, spinning, weaving, cutting and sewing to the finished article. The film offers a time to think and talk about personal bereavements. Address: October Books, 189, Portswood Rd, Southampton Hants, SO17 2NF. Tickets available here. 

Friday 3rd May

7.30pm: Death - A Romantic Comedy, Southampton. Death - A Romantic Comedy is the new show from comic, poet and psych nurse Rob Gee. Address: Gods House Tower, Town Quay Rd, Southampton, Hampshire, SO14 2NY. Find out more & tickets   

Saturday 4th May

11am: Southampton Death Café, Southampton. The Death Café movement started in 2011, aiming 'to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives'. At Death Cafés, discussions around death and dying are directed by participants with no agenda, judgements, objectives or themes. Those who attend Death Cafes describe feeling uplifted by being able to have frank conversations; the compassion in the group; sharing experiences; and humour. Reserve a ticket - or you can just turn up! Address: October Books, 189 Portswood Road, Southampton, SO17 2NF. Reserve your ticket.

Monday 6th May                           

Photography Exhibition: Abi Humphries, Wiltshire. Heartfelt Photography Exhibition at Prospect Hospice. Join for a moving exhibition by local photographer Abi Humphries in the Heart of the Hospice Café. Abi's work is a personal exploration inspired by the time her mother and grandmother spent at Prospect Hospice as patients during her teenage years. Now a photography student at the University of Bath, Abi uses her art to channel these experiences. This exhibition is a poignant opportunity to connect with Abi's artistic journey during Dying Matters Week. Don't miss this special showcase. Address: Heart of the Hospice Café, Prospect Hospice, Wroughton, Wiltshire, SN4 9BY.          

Monday 6th - Friday 10th May

Dying Matters Awareness Week at St Monica Trust, Avon. This event takes place throughout the week, exploring a different perspective on the theme each day. It also brings together good practice relating to end of life care. The event is delivered digitally across all care homes and domiciliary care locations using an online platform. Address: St Monica Trust, Sandford Station, Avon, BS25 5AA

Monday 6th - Sunday 12th May

1pm - 4pm: Open Studio, Dorset. Visit Angie McLachlan's studio to learn about mortality and care of the body with The Ichabodies - death dummies that allow people to approach the subject of death and dying in a non-funeral setting. Address: Workshop 6 - The Victoria Building, Lerret Road, Portland, Dorset, DT5 1GB.

“Let’s talk” for Dying Matters Awareness Week, Dorset. Honour Jewellery is running a week long event on their social media pages to get people talking about Dying Matters Awareness Week. They will be donating a percentage of all their celebration and memorial sales to their local hospice. Address: Unit 11, The Wincombe Centre, Wincombe Business Park, Shaftesbury, Dorset, SP7 9QJ. 

Tuesday 7th May

9am: Time to talk. Dying matters, Devon. A display table with a variety of booklets/leaflets on dying/end of life. This event emphasises communication and the importance of it. This will be done by focusing on the five priorities of care using hands cut out for people to take away. Address: Union house, Union street, Devon, TQ1 3YA.  

10am: Hospital Palliative & End of Life Care Education Team, Torbay Hospital. Your hosts are the Hospital Palliative and End of Life Team and End of Life Ambassadors, who will be available to engage and chat with staff, patients, carers, relatives to discuss this year's focus: 'language used around Death and Dying'. Resources will be available. Address: Level 4 Main Entrance to Torbay Hospital, Lowes Bridge, Torquay, Devon, TQ2 7AA.

10am: Coffee Morning, Latham Lodge Care Home, Purbrook. Have you ever wondered how to approach the difficult conversation about end of life care? As part of Dying Matters Awareness Week, the team at Latham Lodge Care Home are offering advice and information at their drop-in Coffee Morning. Helping someone to understand and accept their situation is often the hardest place to start - and the decisions that follow include considering the choices available and most importantly, finding the best possible outcome for each individual. Latham Lodge specialises in giving end of life care, supporting residents and their families through the journey with empathy, intuition and kindness, and providing outstanding clinical care. If you would like to learn more about the team’s approach to end of life care or have any questions at all about the journey - from initial conversations to practicalities such as power of attorney or funeral planning - please do come along to our informal event. We'll look forward to seeing you and offering you tea, coffee and cake while we chat. Address: Latham Lodge Care Home, 139 Stakes Road, Purbrook, Portsmouth, PO7 5PD

12pm: Dying matters pop up café, Southampton. This pop up café is being held to get people together to talk about dying. There will be free tea, coffee and biscuits as well as some stalls available with information related to the topic. It aims to create a safe space for conversations to take place. Address: University Hospital Southampton Tremona Road, Southampton, Hampshire, SO16 6YD.

12pm: Venn Diagram Display, Devon. There will be a venn diagram display put up for colleagues to add their thoughts regarding Palliative Care and End of Life Care. This can include key words, language used, signs and symptoms Address: Kings Ash House, Kings Ash Road, Paignton , Devon, TQ3 3XZ.

7pm: Suicide Bereavement & Support, Southampton. What language to use regarding suicide, how to support someone or get support following a bereavement, some myths, facts and complications and the long term effects. Address: Edmund Kell Church, Bellevue Road, Southampton, Hampshire, SO15 2AY. Find out more    

Tuesday 7th - Thursday 9th May

10am: The way we talk about dying, Devon. Derriford Hospital are having a stand in the hospital for 3 days from the 7th May with professionals experienced in palliative care there to talk to patients, carers and professionals about the conversations that are needed at the end of life and how this can be facilitated. Resources available for advance care planning and accessing further support. Address: Derriford Hospital, Derriford Road, Devon, PL6 8DH.

Tuesday 7th - Friday 10th May

8am: Let’s talk about the elephant in the room! Exeter. There will be a Dying Matters stand in the staff area of the TLC restaurant at Royal Devon Hospital. There will be an ‘elephant in the room’ for staff to stick post it notes on with the words they fear using or hearing most when speaking about death and dying. The stand will have talking points and resources to help with language and conversations around death and dying. Please feel free to come along and have a chat. Address: TLC Restaurant, Royal Devon Hospital (Eastern), Barrack Road, Exeter, EX2 5DW.

Wednesday 8th May

10am: Companion Voices Bristol taster sing, Bristol. Singers from Companion Voices Bristol will share their gentle and soothing repertoire of songs which they sing for people nearing end of life. Members of the public can get to know their compassionate, spiritual but not religious, approach and hear about how different Companions got involved. You may also be able to join in with one of the songs and ask any questions you may have. The time spent singing at the dying person's bedside is offered with love and the Companions do not charge a fee. Address: John Wesley’s New Room, 36 The Horsefair, Bristol, BS1 3JE. Find out more. Book your place.

10am: This is your life...plan it, enjoy it!, Hampshire. Community event hosted by Oakhaven Wellbeing, part of Oakhaven Hospice. Everyone is welcome to come along and explore the market stalls of local information; estate and funeral planners, celebrants, ways to remember our loved ones. There will also be inspiring and creative workshops that will give people the opportunity to explore the language of Dying Matters and how important it is to share our stories with each other. Address: Sway Place, Church Lane , Sway, New Forest , Hampshire, SO41 6AD. Find out more.

10am: Cuppa and questions, Co-op Funeralcare, Ringwood. We are having a coffee morning at Co-op Funeralcare 10am - 12 noon. We will have a question box and will be on hand to answer any question big or small. Address: Co-op Funeralcare, 36-38 High Street, Ringwood. 

12pm: Stories of children and young people’s palliative care in Kyiv, Ukraine. Bristol. UWE Bristol Library and UWE Bristol Death and Dying Collective are delighted to host a conversation with Radmyla Kryvonis as part of Dying Matters Awareness Week 2024. They'll welcome Radmyla to share her experiences of Palliative Care Program Charitable Foundation 'Tabletochki' in Ukraine and look forward to an inspiring discussion. Come along for a Q&A session and informal networking. Questions are welcome in advance and on the day. Address: Glenside Campus Library, Bristol, BS16 1DD. Find out more.  

7pm: Dead Good Chats with Deb and Tone, Southampton. Deb was a Palliative Care Nurse for 25 years, and Co founder of ' Dead Good Days' in Southampton. Antonia is an artist and creator of the A Graceful Death exhibition of portraits and words from the end of life, a Soul Midwife and Author of ' As Mother Lay Dying'. Deb and Tone have known each other and worked together for many years. On their sofa, they meander with serious good humour, in and out of the topic of death and dying. They share some of their insights, snippets and stories - both personal and professional. It may make you think, laugh a little and be more open about that subject that we all shy away from. Address: The Design Chapel, Cemetery Road, Southampton, SO15 7AF. Find out about other Dead Good Days events.

Thursday 9th May

10am: Coffin open day, Devon. Come and have tea and cake in Woven Farewell's willow coffin workshop as part of Dying Matters week 2024. Why not try your hand at willow coffin weaving! All proceeds from refreshments go to Children's Hospice South West. Address: Higher Moorlands Farm, Luppitt, Devon, EX14 4SY. 

12pm: Good Life; Good Death, Plymouth. An afternoon for the local community to come and talk to The Durnford Society about death and dying and what this means to them. The event hopes to start conversations using processes such as Advance Care Planning and resources for people with Learning Disabilities or Autism. Address: 165 North Prospect Road, Plymouth, Devon, PL2 2ND.

6:30pm: Into the Quiet, Southampton. Join artist and vet, Sarah Filmer, to draw small dead wild creatures. This is a workshop for anyone who would like to be in the presence of these beautiful bodies, and consider how we can re-engage with our own mortality by taking close notice of a body without its life. No drawing experience or skill is required. Basic paper, ink and some drawing boards will be available to use, but feel free to bring your own materials if you wish. Address: Arch 4 Captains Pl, Southampton, Hants, SO14 3FE. Find out more.

6:30pm: Dying Matters to Our Community, Bourton-on-the-Water. Kate’s Home Nursing are joining many other local organisations to host their very own Dying Matters Event to talk about the services that are available to you within the local community. Come along to meet social prescribers, carers hub, local churches, solicitors, funeral directors and nurses to learn more about issues that concern care in the community, including end of life care and after care. Find out more about how to begin a conversation with those important to you about dying, how to talk more confidently about services that you would like, (or what you do not want) and voice your preferences for end of life care and after death. Dying Matters can be an incredibly difficult conversation to have, however, with the skill of Kate's Home Nursing nurses, and the organisations they have partnered with, the conversation does not have to be so challenging. Address: Royal British Legion Hall, Lansdowne, Bourton-on-the-Water, Gloucestershire, GL54 2AR.

7pm - 9pm: North Bristol Death Café, Bristol. A monthly safe space to reclaim the conversation about death and dying - and inevitably - living. Open to anyone with any questions, thoughts or specific issues around death and dying. It's always a free evening, including the tea and cake! Address: Divine Ceremony, 2 Zetland Road, Bristol, BS6 7AE. Contact Ruth, Dee or Isabel on 0117 904 9786 to find out more.

7pm: Dying Matters in Nailsworth. The CEO of Family Tree Funerals, Jane Diamond and funeral celebrant Nicola Banning will be at the Three Storeys Creative Centre in Nailsworth for a discussion. This relaxed and informal event is for anyone who wants to find out more about death, dying and funeral planning during Dying Matters Awareness Week. The evening will cover all aspects but may be of special interest to you if you are helping someone you love to get their end-of-life affairs in order or sorting your own. There will be time for questions and answers and honest conversations about a topic so many choose to avoid, and the benefits of doing otherwise. You will leave feeling more informed and confident with regard to approaching end-of-life planning. Three Storeys is a multi-functional creative venue in the heart of Nailsworth, Gloucestershire – a unique community for working together. Address: The Plot Café, Three Storeys, Nailsworth, Gloucestershire, GL6 0JE. Find out more.

8pm: Much Ado About Dying film screening, Devon: Released to coincide with Dying Matters Week, this multi-award winning and critically acclaimed feature film will play in cinemas and arts spaces across the UK. The film follows director Simon Chambers after his uncle David calls him with a message of doom: “I think I may be dying.” What the viewer doesn’t yet know is that David is a total drama queen, a former actor and Shakespeare-lover who has grown old on a diet of attention and applause. Simon finds his life drastically interrupted and everything that could go wrong does go wrong, as he tries to help his uncle have a good death. Address: Totnes Cinema, 27A High St, Totnes, Devon, TQ9 5NP. Tickets available here.

Friday 10th May

1pm: Woodland burial ground information session/open afternoon, Dorset. A chance to visit a beautiful woodland burial ground in Dorset, where staff will be available to give tours of the grounds and talk about the options available. Refreshments will be available. Address: Hinton Park Woodland burial ground, Wyndham Rd, Christchurch, Dorset, BH23 7EJ. 

Saturday 11th May

11am: Words Matter Dying Matters Week, Bath. Celebrating the Nurse Led specialist palliative and end of life care team during Dying Matters Week, the team will be in the Lansdown area of the Royal United Hospital Bath. Come and see the team, you matter to them. For this specialist team in life, just like the best stories, books and films, the ending is as important as the start. They want to find out what would matter and how can we talk about that. Address: Royal United Hospitals Combe Park, Bath, BA1 3NG.

11:30: A singing workshop by Companion Voices, Brighton. Companion Voices are singers who gather together to learn songs to sing at the bedsides of people who are dying. Songs are drawn from different traditions to create a soundscape to accompany people as they take their leave of life. ‘My experience of learning to be a Companion has been profoundly rewarding and satisfying’ - Kay. Reserve your place at the workshop.

2pm: Author talk by Corinna Edwards-Colledge, Brighton. Author Corinna Edwards-Colledge reads excerpts from about her novella ‘The Door that shouldn’t have been there’. Her novella is a modern fairy tale about grief, hope and recovery for everyone who has lost a loved one. The readings will be followed by a Q & A and a discussion about grief and creativity with visual artist Wendy Pye. Books will be available to purchase at the event. Address: Jubilee Library, Jubilee Street, Brighton, East Sussex, BN1 1GE. Book your place.

3:30pm: Dead Good Film Screening, Brighton. A film showing of Dead Good, an intimate portrait of those dealing with their dead.  No booking required. Dame Emma Thompson has said of the film: ‘Beautifully crafted, so comforting as well as moving….everyone should see this’. Address: Jubilee Library, Jubilee Street, Brighton, East Sussex, BN1 1GE.

Sunday 12th May

12pm: Human Writes - A Death Row Story, Southampton. Short film screening. This film tells the story of Maggie Alder, who writes to prisoners on Death Row. One of these prisoners was Karl, who she visited multiple times, including to attend his execution. The screening will be followed by an hour of general discussion, with Maggie, around her own experience of  befriending someone on Death Row. 'Human Writes' is a UK based organization coordinating penpals for prisoners on Death Row in the USA. Address: Friends Meeting House, 1A Ordnance Rd, Southampton, Hampshire, SO15 2AZ. Tickets available here.

1.30pm: Dying Matters: Open Day at Pentiddy Natural Burials, Cornwall. Explore together our choices around death and dying with the hope of bringing death back into the heart of our communities and empowering us to make the most of our (finite) lives. Address: Pentiddy Natural Burials, Attwood Lane, Pensilva, Liskeard, Cornwall, PL145QU. Find out more

2pm: Death Café Bristol. Death Café Bristol is a monthly event that welcomes all. A friendly group that likes to share ideas and experiences surrounding death and death issues. We like to listen as well as share stories. There is no set agenda, people decide on the day what we will share and discuss. It's always interesting,supportive and helps ease the isolation and fears about a natural part of life. We meet at the culturally, historically and beautifully natural Arnos Vale Cemetery ( Spielman room) with adjoining cafe, free car parking and disability access. Alternate monthly meetings are on zoom where people from all the world join us and enrich our meetings. Address: Arnos Vale Cemetery, Bath Road, Arnos Vale, Bristol, BS4 3EW.

Tuesday 14th May

10am: Planning Ahead drop in café, Torquay. The education team at Rowcroft Hospice are offering a pop up table and comfy chair to chat about all manner of 'Planning for Your Future' topics for anyone interested. The team will be there over coffee and lunch - come and say hello! If interested, but can't attend, take a look at Rowcroft Hospice's fantastic 24 hr online information hub to learn more about planning for your future. Location: Ella's café Lounge 25 Walnut Road, Torquay, Devon, TQ2 6HP.                         

Saturday 18th May

11am: A Dead Good Day Out, Southampton. Plenty of family friendly hands on activities, in a welcoming and creative space. Address: St Denys Church & Centre, Dundee Road, Southampton, Hampshire, SO17 2ND. Find out more

Monday 20th May

12pm: Come to My Funeral! Guildford, Surrey. Everyone is invited to my funeral! I am still upright and breathing (and trust I still will be on the day) but I want to show how gentle a ritual at Clandon Wood can be, set in our beautiful nature reserve. A majority of people have never attended a burial, since cremation has become the popular choice and most people do not understand the difference between a Natural Burial Ground and a conventional cemetery. Come along and be witness to the wonderful contrast between conventional process and a natural human rite - it will change your life! Address: Clandon Wood Nature Reserve and Natural Burial Ground, Epsom Road, West Clandon, Guildford, Surrey, GU4 7FN. Find out more

12:30pm: What Happens When We Die? Wiltshire. Curious about what happens at the end of life? Join Prospect Hospice for a special lunchtime session as part of Dying Matters Week! Their clinical experts will guide a conversation on this often-avoided topic, offering insights and fostering open discussion. This informative session includes: A presentation by Prospect Hospice clinical experts, Ample time for your questions and answers, and an optional guided tour of the hospice after the session. Gain knowledge and peace of mind. Address: Prospect Hospice Education Room, Wroughton, Wiltshire, SN4 9BY.

Wednesday 5th June

7:30pm: Much Ado About Dying film screening, Falmouth. Released to coincide with Dying Matters Week, this multi-award winning and critically acclaimed feature film will play in cinemas and arts spaces across the UK. The film follows director Simon Chambers after his uncle David calls him with a message of doom: “I think I may be dying.” What the viewer doesn’t yet know is that David is a total drama queen, a former actor and Shakespeare-lover who has grown old on a diet of attention and applause. Simon finds his life drastically interrupted and everything that could go wrong does go wrong as he tries to help his uncle have a good death. Address: The Poly, Falmouth, TR11 3EG. Watch the trailer. Tickets available here. 

Friday 3rd May

7:30pm: Much Ado About Dying + Director Q&A, Cardigan. Released to coincide with Dying Matters Week, this multi-award winning and critically acclaimed feature film will play in cinemas and arts spaces across the UK. The film follows director Simon Chambers after his uncle David calls him with a message of doom: “I think I may be dying.” What the viewer doesn’t yet know is that David is a total drama queen, a former actor and Shakespeare-lover who has grown old on a diet of attention and applause. Simon finds his life drastically interrupted and everything that could go wrong does go wrong as he tries to help his uncle have a good death. Address: Theatr Mwldan, Cardigan, Ceredigion, SA43 1JY. Watch the trailer. Tickets available here.

Tuesday 7th May

9:30am: Holistic Hospice Escape Room, Haverfordwest. Paul Sartori Hospice at Home have created an escape room for health care professionals to complete. The 'Holistic Hospice' contains 8 challenges relating to the language around death and dying and local palliative resources. There will be 4 sessions during the day, lasting approximately 1 hour each. Booking is essential and, for this event, only suitable for those from a health background. Address: Paul Sartori House, Winch Lane, Haverfordwest, SA61 1RP. Email Fay to book your place or call 01437 763223.

10am - 4pm: Putting Your House in Order, Merthyr. Advance Care Planning stalls in the foyer of Prince Charles Hospital. Clinical Nurse Specialists Rebecca Hobday and Terry Kemp will be available to offer advice, support and guidance regarding all things Advance Future Care Planning to both visitors and staff. Address: Prince Charles Hospital, Merthyr Tydfil, Merthyr, CF47 9DT.

Wednesday 8th May

1:30pm: Much Ado About Dying + Director Q&A, Builth Wells. Released to coincide with Dying Matters Week, this multi-award winning and critically acclaimed feature film will play in cinemas and arts spaces across the UK. The film follows director Simon Chambers after his uncle David calls him with a message of doom: “I think I may be dying.” What the viewer doesn’t yet know is that David is a total drama queen, a former actor and Shakespeare-lover who has grown old on a diet of attention and applause. Simon finds his life drastically interrupted and everything that could go wrong does go wrong as he tries to help his uncle have a good death. Address: Wyeside Arts Centre, Builth Wells, LD2 3BN. Watch the trailer. Tickets available here.

Thursday 9th May

10am - 4pm: Putting Your House in Order, Mountain Ash. Advance Care Planning stalls in the atrium of Ysbyty Cwm Cynon. Clinical Nurse Specialists Rebecca Hobday and Terry Kemp will be available to offer advice, support and guidance regarding all things Advance Future Care Planning to both visitors and staff. Address: Ysbyty Cwm Cynon, New Road, Mountain Ash, CF45 4BZ.

10am: Ty Gobaith information Stand, Bangor. Information stand in Ysbyty Gwynedd to raise awareness about the local children's hospice Ty Gobaith/Hope House. Address: Ysbyty Gwynedd, Penrhos Road, Bangor, Gwynedd, LL57 2PW. Learn more about Ty Gobaith/Hope House.

Friday 10th May

10am: Dying Matters, Penarth. The event will have information stands, a series of topical talks, activities to stimulate conversation and somewhere to sit and chat with free refreshments. Talks will include; Why talking about death and dying matters, Wills, Planning for end of life, Support in bereavement, End of life care, How to create a unique funeral. There will be information tables about funeral arrangements, end of life care, bereavement support, housing care, will writing, funeral celebrants. There will also be a conversation area where you can chat about things such as which songs you'll have on your deathbed playlist, what you'd like people to do in your memory, what support you'd like from your community. Address: Paget rooms, Victoria Road, Penarth, South Glamorgan, CF64 3EG. Find out more.

10am: Conversation about death, dying and bereavement, Swansea. Swansea Bay University Health Board have arranged for businesses, charities and services within the Swansea Bay allocation to come together and talk death, dying and bereavement. Address: National Waterfront Museum, Oystermouth Road, Swansea, SA1 3RD.

10am - 4pm: Putting Your House in Order, Tonypandy. Advance Care Planning stalls in the atrium of Ysbyty Cwm Rhondda. Clinical Nurse Specialists Rebecca Hobday and Terry Kemp will be available to offer advice, support and guidance regarding all things Advance Future Care Planning to both visitors and staff. Address: Partridge Rd, Llwynypia, Tonypandy, CF40 2LX.

10:30am - 11:30am: Dying Matters Awareness Week Discussion: Life, Death, Dying and Grief, Llanrwst. A chance to discuss Death, Dying and Grief along with the theme of the language of Death and how we talk about it. Staff from St David's Hospice will also be present with information about their services. Address: Llanrwst Library Glasdir, Llanrwst, Conwy, LL26 0DF.

Saturday 11th May

10:30am - 12pm: The Way We Talk About Dying Matters, Carmarthenshire. A public event to mark Dying Matters Awareness Week. Starting with a short film of author and palliative care doctor Kathryn Mannix; which will be followed with discussion on the importance of clear language in relation to dying. Address: Skanda Vale Hospice, Saron, Carmarthenshire, SA44 5DY.

Tuesday 7th - Sunday 12th May

Dying Matters - Drop In Event, Carnmoney. A drop-in event dedicated to discussing the vital services provided by funeral directors. Whether you're curious about Pre-Planning arrangements, Memorial options, or simply wish to learn more about how Funeral Directors support families during difficult times, this is an opportunity to gain insights and ask questions in a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere. Come together to explore the importance of end-of-life planning and the compassionate care that defines our profession. Light refreshments will be provided. Address: Unit 3 Beverley Road Shopping Centre, Carnmoney, BT36 6QD.

Tuesday 7th May

10:30am: Hutchinson care homes, Antrim. Hutchinson Care Homes are holding a coffee and cake morning in their dementia specialist nursing home. It will be mostly carers of patients. A local funeral director (Bairds of Antrim) has also been invited along with a minister (Alan Moore) and the R.C.N. Address: Massereene Manor Private Nursing Home,  6 Steeple Rd, Antrim BT41 1AF. Find out more. 

2pm: Bereavement card launch, Derry. The event is the launch of the ‘HeART of Palliative Care’ Bereavement Card which has been designed in collaboration with Year 10 students at St Mary’s Grammar School, Magherafelt. This card will be used by the Community Specialist Palliative Care Team which is working in the Mid-Ulster locality. It will be used for families and loved ones of service users who were supported by the team at end of life. Address: St. Mary's Grammar School, Magherafelt, Derry, BT45, 6BE. 

Wednesday 8th May 

10am: Dying Matters Awareness Stand, Belfast. There will be a Dying Matters stand in the Main Foyer at Royal Victoria Hospital. Address: Royal Victoria Hospital, Grosvenor Road, Belfast, Northern Ireland, BT12 6BA. 

Friday 10th May

2pm: Launch of Cookstown Library's Death Positive Library, Cookstown. The event launches the first Northern Health and Social Care Trust's (NHSCT) Death Positive Library. The library provides books on lots of topics around palliative care, dying and bereavement for different age groups and needs, e.g., children and easy read formats. The event is a collaboration with the NHSCT, Compassionate Communities NI and Libraries NI. Address: Cookstown Library, Cookstown, Tyrone, BT80 8DJ.

Sunday 19th May

3pm: Much Ado About Dying film screening + Director Q&A, Belfast. Released to coincide with Dying Matters Week, this multi-award winning and critically acclaimed feature film will play in cinemas and arts spaces across the UK. The film follows director Simon Chambers after his uncle David calls him with a message of doom: “I think I may be dying.” What the viewer doesn’t yet know is that David is a total drama queen, a former actor and Shakespeare-lover who has grown old on a diet of attention and applause. Simon finds his life drastically interrupted and everything that could go wrong does go wrong as he tries to help his uncle have a good death. Address: Queen's Film Theatre, 20 University Square, Belfast, Antrim, BT7 1PA. Tickets available here.

Various dates

Much Ado About Dying film screenings + Director Q&As. Good Life, Good Death, Good Grief are partnering with Cinema For All and Cosmic Cat Films to support Scottish screenings of this new award-winning documentary during Demystifying Death Week. Much Ado About Dying follows long-retired actor David Newlyn Gale, living in an unsuitable flat, sustaining himself on cans of soup, keeping himself warm with a small army of electric heaters and battling a mouse infestation with toothpaste. The film presents an intimate, occasionally funny and ultimately moving portrait of a solitary life and a quietly critical assessment of the inadequate resources available in the UK for a rapidly ageing population. Screenings of the film will take place in Dumfries, St Andrews, Bo'ness, Cromarty, Uist, Oban, Dundee, Eigg, Ayr, Aberfeldy, Inverness, Glasgow and Portree. View a full list of screenings.

Demystifying Death Week

Based in Scotland? Check out Demystifying Death Week run by Good Life, Good Death, Good Grief. 

Demystifying Death Week took place across Scotland at the same time as Dying Matters Awareness Week (6-12 May).